2007-03-08 02:00:55 · 57 answers · asked by steph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is not wrong, but in this day and age when virginity is seen more as a liability, it makes it so tough to stay true to yourself. Be proud in your accomplishment
2007-03-08 02:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18, it shows that you are in control of yourself and don't just give in to peer pressure. Those that make fun of you are the ones that probably regret that they are not , and since misery loves company they would do something like that. You have to just ignore them and be very proud of yourself, most teenagers have way too much sexual experience by the time they are 18 and have little to look forward to in their adulthood since they have spent their teens like adults. Good Luck to you and best wishes.
2007-03-08 02:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you for being a virgin. Nothing is wrong with that. Who cares what others think. Don't do something that you will regret just because other people make fun of you. Wait until you are ready or until you meet Mr. Right. Besides you don't want to be like everyone else. You want to be different and special.
2007-03-08 02:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its wrong if youre an 18 year old and have given it away because it was popular. Ignore the jealous brats. Being a virgin makes you special and people dont like it when someone is clearly better than them. Be proud.
2007-03-08 02:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by My_Two_Centz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your virginity is something to be treasured. Making love for the first time should only be with someone who truly loves and respects you. The best advice I was ever given was every time you have sex you need to remember there is always a chance of getting pregnant. If you are not prepared to spend the rest of your life with this person, or raising a child on your own, you need to reconsider. The risk of sexually transmitted disease is even a bigger thing to consider. Wait until that extra special man comes along and make sure he loves you! You will know when it is right.
2007-03-08 02:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by NurseCathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong is them making fun of you. If you feel like it, and that's th way you want it it's absolutely OK. After all you're 18 not 30! Many people save it for a bit later and sometimes it's even better, cause at least you know what you do, and why you do it. Tell them to go f... themselves and to mind their own business.
2007-03-08 02:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by helena_m_p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, it's rare, but it's not wrong. It's your body why should you have sex just because someone else wants you to?
It's no one else's business if you are a virgin. Personally I think it's great and wish I could have said the same thing. Most girls that give it up in highschool regret it later in life. When they are older and look back at their lives they will realize that the risks they took in highschool weren't usually worth it...and the guy was certainly not worth it.
Don't have sex until YOU are ready, not your friends or boyfriend.
2007-03-08 02:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It is not wrong. I am proud of you. Our society no longer puts much stock in virginity, common sense or any of the other virtues that made us a great people. Aside from the religious aspects of it, you have made a wise decision to remain a virgin. Stay with your convictions. Remain faithful to yourself. You will know when the right one comes along and be happier for it. The very best to you.
2007-03-08 02:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by sarge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! Don't ever think that being a virgin is wrong. I may not be a virgin myself, but my best friend is, and she is 22 and she is hot. I think it is wonderful that you are still a virgin. And if you have been a virgin for this long, honey stay that way until after you are married. Believe me, sex is great, but it is worth the wait. And your future husband will be thrilled that he is the first one and only one you have "known".
2007-03-08 02:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong that they make fun of you be proud of your self i wish i was still a virgin i lost mine at 16 and now i am 18 and i have had 3 miscarrages and now i amy have 1 one the way for real this time and it sucks cause there goes my college and life
2007-03-08 02:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋