I was hangin out with this really hott guy the other day, that I have been crushin on real hard for a lil over a month now...but newayz we ended up havin sex. I don't regret it cuz I liked it..but I mean now it seems like it may have been a mistake. I don't want him to think that I'm sleezy. I mean he is only the 2nd guy that I've been with. What should I do??? Did I make a mistake?
2007-03-08 01:57:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you made a mistake. Sex is supposed to be a precious gift you give to someone who you love and who loves you and are in an exclusive relationship with. What more do you have to offer than such an intimate part of you? You may have just turned yourself into another girl on his list. Learn your lesson and never do that again. Even if he does want to go out with you again, promise yourself that you'll wait until you know him better and can determine if you are both compatible in other ways, because he may just come back for sex if he thinks he can get it easily from you, which is showing disrespect all the way around. Sex is supposed to be the icing on an already good cake.
2007-03-08 02:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did make a mistake. Take it for an older woman, guys say that is what they want from a girl but in reality they want a pure girl for marriage or a full time relationship. You should never give in to having sex with a guy at the beginning of a relationship. But lets face it, it is not a relationship but just a crush and perhaps just one sided. Don't feel bad if he never ask you out again but you can learn by this mistake. Wishing you all the luck in the world and take your time in finding the right one for you.
2007-03-08 10:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by mary r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you really won't know until you see him again and see how he treats you. If sex was all you wanted from him, then no harm no foul, but if you were hoping for more, you "may have" blown it. Did you guys exchange phone numbers? Any talk about getting together again? Seriously, only time will tell what will happen. Good luck.
2007-03-08 10:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby you're too fast to give it to him! Which might make him thought that you were a sleezy type. Anyhow, what you could now is just to show your love to him and do not involve sex. At least it makes him to feel that first time is precious one.
2007-03-08 10:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by cleoleeps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax about it, there's really nothing you can do now, its done and over with. His actions will show whether or not it affected his interest in you.
2007-03-08 10:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you are not suppose to have sex with guys you have crushes on... only your bf or husband... next time try to keep your legs closed and hope that you are not pregnant or have a std...
2007-03-08 10:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell....but probably yes
2007-03-08 10:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋