the reason i cant is because he always yellin at me for everything.. what should i do?
2007-03-08 01:31:17 · 23 answers · asked by augustboo_19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I had a stepfather like that, I practically lived in my room because i was always walking on eggshells when he was home. I you have another parent in the house, talk to them or another relative. If it is really bad, try a helpline or protective services because emotional abuse is just as bad if not worse than physical abuse. Good luck and stay tough
2007-03-08 01:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jellybean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your mom about it. Constantly yelling at you is considered a form of abuse. He's demonstrating that a) he's hardly tolerating you, and b) he has anger management problems. You shouldn't have to carry the weight of his personal issues. If your mom refuses to do anything about it, spend more time away from home if possible. Study at school or at the library. Get a job if you can and if it wont cut into your study time. Don't discard the idea of talking with the school counselor. She/He might be able to help you find other ways to deal with this. Whatever you do, don't do nothing. You're at an impressionable age and your step dad is blowing your self esteem by taking things out on you, and yelling will not resolve the issues but will add to them.
2007-03-08 01:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the perfect issue to do is make certain your stepdad isn't living house and then once it truly is made particular then flow to the living house frivolously and characteristic a communication along with your mom. tell her the way you experience about your stepdad. Get your stuff and flow for your dads. i wish I helped you
2016-12-05 10:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by kuebler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to your mother? Maybe she doesn't know he's yelling at you. Maybe he doesn't realize he's yelling.
Try asking your mom if the three of you can have a family meeting. My kids (ages 10 and 13) know if there's an issue, they can come to me and we'll all sit down as a family adn talk about it. Blending families can be tough, but it doesn't get any better if the issue(s) aren't discussed openly.
2007-03-08 01:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Paula S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day try and sit down and ask him why is it that your always yelling at me . Am I doing something wrong or are you just in a bad mood . Only your step dad can really help you . Write him a letter telling him nicely how you feel if you don't want to ask him . GOOD LUCK and Best Wishes !!!!!!!
2007-03-08 01:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your mom and talk to her about him and then talk to him about the problem and try to resolve the problem. It always helps with me. I had two stepdads, but my mom is on her second. I like the guy and I know if I have a problem with him I can talk to him about it and resolve the problem.
I hope this helps you.
2007-03-08 01:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by cari_valentine2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well did u ever do anything to him to make him yell at u mabe u just need to try an stay away for a few days if u can so u wont have to deal with it like everyday and dont yell at him back gives him more things to yell abt trust me!
2007-03-08 01:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a lot of blended families have this problem, just look at the bright at 18 you get to leave and don't have to deal with him
2007-03-08 02:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here’s the deal...when kids do what you’re supposed to do--homework, chores, speaking to others civilly, etc--generally parents (or stepparents, as the case may be) don’t yell. So IF that’s why he’s yelling (and you didn’t say why he yells), it’s a simple thing for you to fix.
2007-03-08 01:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. Its the best way. Lookat him but dont say anything. Works for me its jsut makes the realize they arent making a difference.
2007-03-08 01:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Kelli Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋