My Ex girlfriend is trying to decide between me and this other guy, She says she has feelings for both of us and out of all the guys she's dated she's only been in love with the both of us
(She used to date this guy before we went out) I told her to make a choice and decide because she can't have us both, I asked her this question February 16th 2007 it is now March 8th. 2007
should I give her more time and space to think and decide before I ask her to decide ( Remember I don't want to put pressure on her and push her away to this other guy) I really care for this girl alot and I really want to be with her but I don't know what to do, Right now I'm looking for the best advice anyone can give me for this situation.
2007-03-08 01:13:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FORGET IT! Lets say she does choose you but she still likes the other guy anyways she could end up cheating on you. Her feelings for him are not just going to go away over night for that other guy. She is CLEARLY confused. Move on! Life is too short to be waiting around for her to make up her mind. That could take months. Dont giver her anymore time just tell her bye and that you have to move on. In time you will be over her and will have found someone else.
2007-03-08 01:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu haven't mentioned how you feel about this girl. I take it you like her a lot?
Well, from what I know about women (and I am one) if you play a bit hard to get, it will do one of two things. She will either realise you are a jerk or else she will suddenly realise that you are the one and she was a fool to let you go.
So yes, I'd do something to preempt the decision. I'd start looking as though I was moving on and see what her reaction is. If there is no reaction, move on for real.
2007-03-08 09:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, make the choice for her. She really is not worth waiting on. If she cared about you she would not be doing this. It really sounds to me like she is just playing games with the both of you. You deserve better.
2007-03-08 09:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by TD R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man move on. I hate people who cant make a decision to save their lives. there are plenty of people out there who can make solid decisions. Find one of them. She obviously doesnt seem to think there is enough that diferentiates you from the other dude so I would have some self respect and move on. Dont contemplate marriage with this nut job.
2007-03-08 09:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the expression " don't know what you got till it's gone"? Move on , if she really loves you she'll drop what's his name and come running. If not she doesn't deserve your time and energy. No matter how much you think she loves you , she loves someone else too and you deserve better than that.
2007-03-08 09:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by backwoodscountrywoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your loses and move on. It seems to me she is playing you for a fool. If she really loved you she would dump the other guy and be with you. It seems to me she likes the power of having you both want her. Don't hang on and get hurt find someone worthy of you and your love
2007-03-08 09:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, have some pride. men are supposed to be better at self esteem than women, but you aren't proving it.
Tell your ex to go &*^% herself and move on. Grow a backbone.
If she's doing this to you now, she doesn't really respect you.
2007-03-08 09:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you move on with life,if she's meant for you,you'll both definitely end up together eventually...but then again it depends on yourself,whether you still want to be with her or not...if you do...be a man and fight for it...most girls love that
2007-03-08 09:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by Marie Q 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy: why are you putting up with this? Are you a doormat?
Move on. Don't answer her calls, don't try to be her friend. She has no integrity and doesn't respect you.
2007-03-08 09:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run a 5k every week and dont look back. She does not deserve you.
2007-03-08 09:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by clevion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋