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what i am trying to ask is i hate to be alone like i always need somebody there and i just wanted to know am i meant to be alone b/c i dont want to be

2007-03-08 00:36:54 · 10 answers · asked by freakygurl_910 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Nah, you're not destined to be alone.
You are just dependent on having someone on a regular basis.
Not so much as concerned with WHO he is.
Be careful in this because you'll end up on a roller coaster ride of relationships that won't amount to anything.
Re-evaluate what YOU want and don't settle.
Silence is loud when you're alone, but bending into a pretzel for people who don't value you is worse..

Good luck, Babygirl.

2007-03-08 00:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 1 2

Once upon a time I was the same way, when I was much, much younger. But, when I hit my late 20's everything changed, I was divorced and had my own apartment for the first time. Yes, it was a lonely time, but I used the time alone to learn more about myself, to get over issues in my life that needed extra attention, and to accept myself the way I am. Now, I enjoy my solitude. My new hubby is the same way. Things are great when we do stuff together, but we both guard and protect our alone time. So, my suggestion to you is to take this alone time you have and get to really know yourself, your likes, dislikes, read some good books, watch the videos you always wanted to see and find peace in the solitude. Once you do, you will be stronger and more independent because of it. Learn from this and trudge alone. Within 3 months I foretell that you'll meet someone special. :)

2007-03-08 00:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

hey girl! Dont mind what she said. Nobody can really truely understand what you are saying unless they are just the same way. I personally am the same way! I go nutz when nobody is around! I always want to be doing something in some sort of group too. Its hard for people around me to understand it. I wouldnt say that you and I are ment to be alone. We just have to find someone that is the same way. There are people out there! You just have to be careful to not smother the person. Cause that will turn people away. When it comes to a relationship try to play it cool at the beginning, and the closer you get to the person the more time you will be spending together! IDK if this helps but Its what i tried, and its been doing good for me. Goodluck! If your ever bored outta your mind feel free to hit me up with an email! lol

2007-03-08 00:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0 2

Its a private determination. you are able to stay on my own yet in no way think of which you're too previous on your mom and dad. do not forget approximately that as they age, they want your corporation much greater, even nonetheless they in all probability won't point out it. own advantages? you start up earning on your very own and get to spend it your way. you would be reckless with reductions on the commencing up yet you will get the carry of it.

2016-12-18 08:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

No one really knows what is in store for them. I was certain that I was destined to be alone, and I was okay with that.

After a bad marriage, I dated some nice men but never found "the one." After so long, I just figured it wasn't meant to be. And then one day, God in his infinite wisdom, arranged for me to meet this wonderful man. The rest is history!

2007-03-08 00:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 0 2

Obviously not. Wow what a question. I'm sorry but that makes no sense. If you want to not be alone, that does not mean you are meant to be...

2007-03-08 00:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

No. Just because you don't want to be alone doesn't mean you will be. I'm curious why you fear being by yourself so much though.

2007-03-08 00:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0 1

when a person is alone, they are ALONE. because in a sense that nobody is gonna come up to a person who is alone.
and thats what is meant to be alone, even if they are!!

2007-03-08 00:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

noone wants to be alone....but some people just dont find close companions..its just bad luck i guess...keep your chin up...you will find someone...

2007-03-08 00:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by don 2 · 0 2

You could always have friends with you...
Or maybe you have not found the right someone....

2007-03-08 00:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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