My bf the other day when he called me said do u wanna break? I think its because ive been in Florida on vaca and other girls at my skool are doing something to break us up. I told him "i dont know, i dont really want to but if u do" what do i do?? cuz he didnt tell me an answer he was just blank. SOMEONE HELP PLZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-08 00:17:17 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either he is already seeing someone else and wants to have a break but wants your "approval" so that he doesn't feel bad.. OR he thinks you might be seeing someone else and is giving you the oppotunity to end it without making him look like a fool.
Its best to just call him up and ask him, either way it will be a learning curve for you both.
Good Luck
2007-03-08 00:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you given some hint or some vibes that say you want the relationship to end? It certainly seems that way. Your guy is probably feeling insecure and wants to cope with your leaving, hoping you won't hook up with someone there.
You should ask him why and explain and deal with the problem thereafter, even if you want to ask anoither question. Ask him if he still cares for you, if he does you have to find out why he is sayiong such things. If he does want to break uo with you, he wasn't worthy of your attention by asking that way anyhow.
2007-03-08 00:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is feeling very insecure at the moment and just needs you to reassure him that you're still his.
Either that or he wants you to be the one to break up so he won't feel bad about dumping you.
Just tell him how you feel about him, but let him know if he is no longer into you, you will heal and move on. Love is not about "making it work" when it is not.
2007-03-08 00:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he wants to break up or he thinks you want to break up with him. That's just about the only reasons he'd ask you that. I would just talk to him and find out why he asked you, and if its because he thinks you want to break up explain to him that you don't. If its because he does then either try to work it out or move on and find someone new.
2007-03-08 00:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just a lame thing to say to him. Even if its the fault of other girls, he's easily swayed. This relationship isnt matured enough and you would let go of it one day anyway
2007-03-08 00:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying "yeah, I want to break up". So just go ahead and say "okay".
2007-03-08 00:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants the relationship to end.
2007-03-08 00:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by bladeshaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off!!! He is a boy anyway enjoy your time.
2007-03-08 00:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because one of you guys are unhappy. Most likely him.
2007-03-08 00:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to break up?? If you don't want to break up, why did you say "I don't know" ? Discuss this with him openly...
2007-03-08 00:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by maverick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋