i dont want to sacrifice with my studies..but can't leave him..i was very intelligent but not now ...what should i do
2007-03-07 23:56:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in the same situation as you im finding it hard cos i wanna spend more time with him....however my boyfriend understands that i have to do well and encourages and supports as much as he can...how long have you got to go to finish???
But i mean reallly getting good grades is more important...it dictates the rest of your life a relationship doesnt always last as much as you love him now!!please dont waste ur intelligence!
2007-03-08 00:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're CLEARLY unwell, babes. WORK FIRST, BOYS LATER... it's like a universal rule for truly intelligent people. It even translates to probabilities in math: Your boyfriend may leave you (probability is in the 90s, as men get worse and more promiscuous as they get older) but your degree/certifications will last you forever (100%) AND they'll take you places you may not otherwise go. Go figure.
Tell the dude very clearly that there is study-time and there's boyfriend time and that the two cannot overlap. Ask him to respect that as he respects you -and if he doesn't, kick him to the curb, it's SO not worth it!
2007-03-08 08:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Arsengal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Kiran,
For more concentratin on ur studies stop meeting him frequently, just meet him once a while. Be in touch with him on phone but not long hrs talkin. Try to be more practical whih is what is important. Try to prioritise ur things, the most importnt should be done first n rest others later. At this time ur studies are more imptnt. u can catch him up later, bye take care
Max
2007-03-08 10:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by hiteshmax24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it is not at all good to do all this kind of stuff because this is the only stage to study.He is not at all your true friend and u will surely realize this one day so why to sacrifice for such a boy with your studies.2morrow u will find him with a new girlfriend.But if u think that he is your true friend then devote more time to your studies and tell himyour problem and explain him that u will need2 stay away from him for some days.
2007-03-08 08:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Divya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a good decisin who is more important, what u need more in your life and what can help u to earn better money and money makes the world go around . Just think whom u will lose it and will never come back again to u. So do concentrate in your studies and boys is like a train. Ones goes and comes the other.
2007-03-08 08:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends come and go but your studies should definitly be on top. i would say come up with a system / schedule and don't see him too often. sometime when you want something .... something else has to be sacrificed. and really it all depends on what you really want in life. do you want to risk your transcript and have a great relationship with a guy for the moment or do you want to really find out how strong your relationship with him is and put it to the test. while at the same time you're working on yourself and not letting anyone or anything pull you down.
2007-03-08 08:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal.You should behave in a mature way.If you fail
in your exam that is not going to improve your love relatioship.
SO keep your thinking about your boyfriend for most of the time
out of your mind and concentrate on your studies.
2007-03-08 09:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by samiran_bandyopadhyay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have study goals with the prize being your boyfriend
like
1. If i complete this subject by this week, i can go for a date with him
2. If i finish my today;s assignment, i can talk to him over the phone
I guess this way your boy friend should help you (indirectly to study better) :)
2007-03-08 08:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by Pavan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young.
You need discipline in your life, schedule and space you self.
Normally I would say , this is the time for studies and hard work, play some and you must , enjoy the youth, it comes only once in your life time, once gone it is gone for ever.
I hope I am getting my point across.
2007-03-08 08:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bribe urself, that after this piece of study, i'll meet him, after that piece of work, i'll kiss him, etc, etc.
then ask ur bf to bribe u in the same manner, if he loves u, he will do it, if he doesn't then study without bribes.
2007-03-08 08:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by anwesha08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋