Guys help!!?

Question

this is prob the most commonly asked question
but what do guys want most out of a girl??

besides sex bcuz half of ye dont care about that...

for eg. do you like a girl who gives in??
do you like a funny girl?
do you like a talkative girl
a smart girl?

help i havent a clue whats going thru my boyfriends head and i want this to work so i need to know what ye are interested in??

and its not like im going to completly change just a bit different

i took most of your advices and i was myself (sweet, honest, caring, sensitive, funny, and loving) which is what i am - not bragging but now he loves me and were inseperable

so thanks for the advice
which to be honest i though was gonna be all about long legs and big chests

soz for that

sammi x x x x

Answer 1

There are few things guys would do to girls depending on what kind of girl they are: -

::::Girls that make a good partner with:::
No sex during relationship period. Set a limitation to guys (not too much freedom. Freedom is bad for guys =p) Guys are not discpline

::::girls who gives in::::
This are what the guys find for "one night stand". It start fast and end fast. Perhaps it never started. Relationship starting with sex never bring you far

:::funny girl::::
Only among the partner you like. Dont over do it.

:::Smart girl::::
I personally dont mind a girl smarter than me. Truth is and by fact, women are leading men in academic (truth) If male get discourage of a female better than them, then it would be a burden that would be carried for whole life. that is unhealthy

::::::talkative girl:::::::::
funny girl tend to be talkative girl. i personally like those. it all comes to personality and self control.


personally, i would want a girl that could listen to my words and not take me for granted or think im a weaker being. I wouldnt want a girl that is not understand who think im weak when i mention my weakness and not accept who i am. You need to accept your partner's weakness or perhap help him to counter it.

Answer 2

You're asking the wrong question to the wrong people. You will be and are loved the person you are and the person you aspire to be. Not the person you will change to become (even a slight change). everyone is unique and its not any one single trait that makes you attractive its all of them. Being easy isn't a trait that most guys look for in a serious relationship, that is what bed hoppers look for.You should be asking your boyfriend what he likes if thats what you want to know, but ultimately you should be asking yourself;
Am i a funny girl?
Am i a talkative girl?
Am I a smart girl?
Am I happy being me?
if you are who you are then the right man or woman will be there for you. There is a person there for all of us and if you need to change who you are to be with that person then he/she is not the one.

Answer 3

i'd unload him asap. If he likes yet another female and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? authentic love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, it rather is committed and stressful paintings. you will desire to work out this as a pink flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you ought to not additionally be pondering a severe relationship that is going to reason you lack of self assurance. have relaxing, do not replace into overly invested in this, WHAT? you won't have the ability to flirt? flow on, the writing is on the wall and it spells hassle. Do your self a choose and decrease the guy loose, no count if this is destined to be, it is going to run it rather is direction and he would be back. yet why you will take him back purely you are able to answer.

Answer 4

listen to me carefully and when in doubt just look back at this answer!

if u are lacking in all facets, if u have a killa personlaity, it will make u a star!!! - eg. my mate, who is close to being the msot liked guy in school (has girls crawling over him!!) is going out wit this chick named Zoe, shes ok in the looks, not bad, not good, shes also hasnt got the greatest body, definately not thin and not fat.... so what sorts her out from the rest?? she is theeeee, coolest chick ever, she is sooooo chill the boys can joke with her nad she just takes it and throws some gold back at us!! if u can step aside from the prim chick thinking and take it down a noth to the guys level, they will be crwling all over u 2!!!!

funny, jokester
most importantly knows the mood of any situation and can act accordingly, so shes not always a joker but can be soooo sexy and cute when she wants to

ITS all the brain baby, and if uv got an ok body and face, u will rock our world!!!

Answer 5

Persoanly I like people who are themselves, who have personality more than anything, and know how to have a laugh, being able to talk open and honestly is the best part of a relationship. Just being you is the most important part of all.

Answer 6

A guy wants a girl who will make him happy and who is always smiling. When you're with your guy, forget your troubles, it's only he and you, no one else!. You better concentrate on always being here for him, smiling, caring for him rather than asking him loads of questions. Be a sweet lil hon!

Answer 7

I like all of the above gives in, funny, chatty and smart and it is possible to have all of those - at different times.

And you need to be less concerned with what goes on in his head and more conerned with being yourself and how he treats you.

Good luck.

Answer 8

firstly you should not need to change anything about yourself. a guy should love you for who and what you are. for me i`m lucky. my wife is funny, smart, independant and unselfish. probably all the things you are. so just be yourself.

Answer 9

a normal girl
not some hot high and mighty *itch
but a hot down to eart kind of girl

Answer 10

I like the nurturing kind of girl.We might say we don't but we do.And its true that the fastest way to a mans heart is his stomach so get cooking.