why is it that at college its so hard to find a decent guy??

Question

all of them seem soo imature even uneducated guys are more mature than them...anyone else had different experience???

well all they seem to wanna do is play around and get pissed

Answer 1

i am having the same experience with guys at my university.i thought i would have found the 'one' when i go off to university.but my four years are up and no such luck.college guys only think about themself,how many girls the can sleep with and where is the next hot nite club.i cant believe some of the things that come out of these guys mouth .girlfriend i have already decided not a date them and maybe u should too. too much of drama.

Answer 2

Because at college you still aren't out of your habit of rejecting decent guys. You're still looking right past them, to the same bad-boys you've always preferred but for some reason you expect them to be different.

Give yourself another decade, then you might actually be looking for a decent guy, instead of just pretending you are.

Answer 3

come on girl! college students are jus starting to have fun about life, thats they it suppose to be for them,but of course i believe there are few were decent.But im sure oneday he will turn back the clock.;-(. Uneducated guy were more fucused in finding a fine woman like you.
So,go and enjoy your time too,you dont wanna be among of the victims,would you?(jus like me he he he).Take it easy dont be too serious yet,there is always a time for that.

Answer 4

I think many guys consider college too fun of a time in their life to be settled down. This is when most people do their "experimenting". I think many guys are immature at this stage too. I didn't really settle down until around 27.

Answer 5

well lots of the time and im not saying this toward you personally gals such as yourself make seek looks before personality yes of course you should be atractive but super hot or w.e may not be the best choice if your looking for a serious relationship and a stable one becuz most of the time the guys with the really good looks are the gonna have the shitty hearts that dont nessecarily care if they ever lose you or not you gotta find someone that can connect with you not just with your eyes or body but with your heart and mind someone that will think about you alot and you will think about them

Answer 6

They are young and immature. Most if them haven't had much esperience in life. They haven't had the maturing effects of facing adversity yet. Wiat a few years and see.

Answer 7

I had a great time in college. I found my girlfriend in my second year. We met on date night when she was a freshman. We used to go on romantic picnics together. She really digged my parents too. Though our relationship only lasted until graduation, we are both thirty-something and still talk. (Yup fifteen years later we sill talk. :)

Keep your mind open and don't limit your possibilities. Join a club, go to date night, go to semi-formals. Hey it is semi-formal season. Time to find a date. Ask your friends to hook you up.

Good luck and G-d bless.

Answer 8

Decent guys are everywhere, but most gals like you would pass them over for indecent gangster wannabee guys.

Answer 9

well they are away from home for the first time and they are acting up. men are slow to mature so opt for the older students if possible

Answer 10

all your classmates are your age. women mature physically and mentally earlier than men.so you can't expect them to be as mature as you are,but i don't think they are in decent.just try someone older than you.