social workers?

Question

what if i have him back though , will my kids be took off me , my 13 yr old was trying to stop us from fighting , my ex pushed him out the way ...

Answer 1

I don't understand what you are trying to say, if your ex pushed your kid and your kid was hurt and social services were called then you and your ex are probably being investigated

Answer 2

I do foster care and know fairly well how social workers might handle this kind of thing. To the workers, all they know is your ex was physically aggressive to your son. That is how they will view it regardless of the intention behind it. I know that as long as they think there is a possibility of it happening again, then they are bound by the law to step in and remove the child or children from the home. Talk to the case worker about it and ask her if your ex can be around your children. If they said that he can't be there...then ditch him. Your children should always come first. Besides, if you and your ex was fighting aggressively enough to make your 13 year old son feel the need to step in, then open your eyes to the situation. Your ex might not be the right person to have in your life right now.

Answer 3

You don't deserve your kids back if you choose a man over your children. I have worked in social services for a while, including domestice violence and mental health and when women choose a man over their child, it's letting the child know that their opinion and feeling are not important. A Child deserves to grow up in a safe home. You need to go to counseling, and find out why you would want a man who disrespects you as a woman and more importantly as a mother. Work on yourself, and becoming a better mother.

Answer 4

You had a different question earlier didn't you? Well, if you have him back you need to ensure no violence or else the social workers will come a knocking. You need to decide what you want? Looks to me that this guy can get violent putting your 13 year old kid at risk.

Answer 5

harsh fact this but your kids should come first all the time your child was protecting you even if he got hurt by accident no child should have to watch this behaviour or suffer it? Do not put yourself and love for this man before your kids they are innocent and love you regardless, if you choose to carry on seeing this bloke then be happy to do it away from your family but in all truth i love my man if he hurt my kids even like that he would be gone in a shot! We never fight in front of our kids plus violence breeds violence please make this guy get counselling if you love him so much but don't have him back or your children will think you don't give a toss about them and don't let your children feel guilty he has to stay away good luck but really shouldn't have to ask us no comparison kids every time first ?

Answer 6

if your kids are in danger of getting hurt physically as well as emotionally there is a chance that they could be taken off you. i spent my whole life watching my parents fight and my mum get abused, its not fair on the children and can lead to depression. you dont need a man that fights with you and pushes your kids around. if he's like that dont take him back, theres nothing worse than watching your mother getting abused, verbally, emotionally or physically

Answer 7

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Answer 8

If your ex is abusive and hits on the kids then yes they'll be taken from you and thrown in foster care and chances are you won't get them back and they'll be seperated.

Answer 9

why do you even want to live like that and take your kids through that,they will never for get thatlife is to short to fight and be unhappy,enjoy your kids whlie they are young,don't let nothin come between you and your kids. Good Luck

Answer 10

make a safe home for your kids.
if you need to fight with your men, don't do it in front of the kids
pay a babysitter to mind the kids while you go out for sex.
you aren't ready to have a man share your home.