I slept with a friend of a friend - what should I do?

Question

I have seen the guy before with his girlfriend (they have split up now) but we met up last week at a bar with mutual friends, chatted a lot, got a bit tipsy and ended up in bed. I do like the guy but I'm a bit shy and I'm sure I won't hear from him as I left very quickly in the morning. I dont want to annoy my friends to find out if he wants to meet again or get his phone number. I know where he lives but I dont want to just turn up at his house!!What should I do? I think I should leave it for a while but I can't get him off my mind. He is very tall dark and handsome!

Answer 1

Why didn't you ask him for his number? If he was that good, then you should have stayed for breakfast or even lunch. You blew it.

Answer 2

Bit like closing the stable door when the horse has already bolted that question.

Your thoughts about leaving it for a while sounds like a good idea, however if you don't really want to wait, just pop a note through his letterbox with a short note - really enjoyed the other night, would love to do it again soon, call me etc not forgetting to put your telephone number on the message.

Of course there is always a danger of him thinking lets just get together for sex - if that is ok with you go ahead.

Answer 3

Your shy, but you ended up in bed after getting tipsy! If the ex girl of his is your friend then leave this guy alone.. Friends shouldn't sleep with other friends mates or exes. If this is not the case and he is just a friend of yours then wait until he makes the move or move on because most likly he won't be reaching for you unless you both get tispy again.

Answer 4

I think he will seek you out if he sees you as more than just a one-night booty call. I'm sorry, but you should not have just jumped into bed with the guy unless that was all you wanted. Tall, dark, and handsome...well...I'm sure he has no problem finding women...I have one of those, and I know that he is prime game for women, but if I had just hopped into bed with him the first time we went out (and it was an actual DATE), he'd never have bothered with me again. It's horrible to say, but I think you may have blown it by sleeping with him so fast.

Answer 5

Leave it for a while then later try to rather "bump" into him, and go from there. I know how it is to feel shy, but also know how to create opportunities which allows me to somehow over come it.

So what I'm saying is....deliberately make sure u within his circle, crowd and places. Don't make it so that he knows u seeking him out though

Answer 6

First thing you should do is get yourself to a free clinic for HIV/AIDS, STD and pregnancy testing. You will also need to schedule a 3 month and 1 year follow up for the HIV/AIDS and STD tests.

The next thing you need to do is promise yourself that you won't drink and fall into bed with men again. Have a little more self-respect than that.

Answer 7

thing is hun, he's probs just on the rebound and as u said u were both a bit tipsy.
if he wants to see you again then i am sure he will get ur number off ahis friend and be in touch, but to be honest hun i wouldn't get ur hopes up about it.

Answer 8

Looks isn't important in a relationship. Character is. Give yourself and him some space and see if he'll look you up. Meanwhile, take your mind of him.

Answer 9

Wait and see if he contacts you. It could be that it was just a one night thing he was after.

Answer 10

u think too much , its just sex between 2 adults. theres no love when u both are not close. forget abt that night ,it has nothing to do with love.