2007-03-07 22:28:07 · 19 answers · asked by wanderlust789 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
just for the count, i'm 18, i've never slapped anyone in my life.
2007-03-08 01:45:42 · update #1
I will whoop my childs butt no doubt. but to open handedly slap my childs face?? No i wouldnt do that
2007-03-07 22:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by Oops! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There should definitely be consequences...but not a slap. It also depends on your definition of "rude". Everyone's is different. I have witnessed rude kids that I would DEFINITELY discipline, and their parents did nothing.
My daughter is just a baby so I have no experience (yet) with disciplining my own child. I can say however that I was clipped a few times as a kid. But only a few; I was taught not to be rude to begin with so it was rare that my punishment got that far. I had the fear and that was enough.
Choose effective consequences (other than slapping), be firm and consistent.
2007-03-08 00:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slapping and a spanking are two different things. A swat on the butt, I personally agree with. But slapping, and other physical punishments are WRONG. A spanking should be so rare that it makes an impression and the offense should warrant it. When I hear the word slap, I think open hand across face and THAT, should send someone to jail.
2007-03-08 00:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 13:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l don't have a child yet l am pregnant with my first but when l was young my parents bit and slap me alot cos l was very stubborn,l was having the feelings that they hate me but today l realized that they are the best parents in the word,cos if not for the way l was brought up l could have ended up being a street girl,today l am happily married and will be a mother in 3 weeks time
2007-03-07 23:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slapping is very demeaning. Also, how does that teach a child not to be rude when the parent acts rude beyond measure by slapping?
You teach by modeling your best behavior, having clear expectations, and logical, non-violent consequences. (Hitting lowers the iq after all!)
2007-03-07 23:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they don't listen when i say to stop doing or acting that way I would eaither spank the butt or slap the hand depending on what they are saying. No if they are of an age that they know better and do it because they think it is funny i might tap them on the mouth. My mom did and i am fine.
2007-03-07 22:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No pure and simple. I do spank my daughter but on the legs or the butt when she has been really bad but not for being rude and I would never slap a child on the face never
2007-03-07 22:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He gets a time out and says he is sorry for being rude but no i don't slap him.
2007-03-07 22:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never mind the children....... there are enough adults around to warrant staging a national 'Give someone deserving a good slapping" day!!!
2007-03-07 23:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by renclrk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't slap a child for being rude, but I do tell them that they were not nice and to be nice next time
2007-03-07 22:33:50 · answer #11 · answered by mshonnie 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋