So, this is the story if you're patient enough to read it. I think my best girl friend likes my best guy friend. She's got a boyfriend, but she's bored with the relationship and is thinking of breaking up with him. My best girl friend flirts constantly with my best guy friend, and vice versa. They are constantly touching, talking, flirting, arrgh! It drives me crazy because the problem is, I think I like my best guy friend as well. I want him so bad but my best girl is getting in the way. I love both of them dearly, and don't want to lose any one. How do I get the guy before she breaks up with her guy and gets together with him?? Please help, I'm in a huge dilemma here.
2007-03-07 22:24:43 · 8 answers · asked by xlunax 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At the end of the day this is a very difficualt one but it boils down to a few points
1) She still has a boyfriend bored with him or not shes cheating
2) let your friend know your feelings
3) call a truce with your friend and agree that your all gonna stay mates as you dont want this to get awkard between yur trianagle
i mean your all friends anyway why ruin it?
2007-03-07 22:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chel1525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best guy friend is interested in your bgf then no point in loving him... but if doesn't have any idea regarding that then go ahead and propose him before your bgf propose him... Since its that u feel she likes and flirts but not declared right now... am i correct
If you feel that he flirts back to her then don't even turn to him because he will keep flirting each n every girl he sees
Good Luck
Don't panic take your decision patiently so that you wont make a wrong choice!!!
2007-03-08 06:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to burst ur bubble but i think u already have lost the battle because they already sound like they into each other, and anything u try to break that up, will hurt ur friendship with both of them.
if u are desperate, u could act like a conniving biatch though:
by convincing ur guy-friend that if ur best girlfriend left her bf for him, she might to the same to him at a later stage.
And convince ur girlfriend that she must still be in love with her bf
when they both confused, or doubtful of each other, u make ur move.
2007-03-08 06:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to know if your best guy friend is interested in you. If yes, let him know your thoughts and see if the relationship can kick start from there. If his answer is no, there is nothing much you can do except to find yourself a boyfriend and still get to keep this two best friends.
2007-03-08 06:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love triangles are the trickiest thing in love.
and it's even harder when it involves 2 of your best friends.
if you choose the guy, you'll lose your girl friend. i'm sorry, but it's going to be either one. this is really hard. you have to choose one of them. usually, i would tell people to choose the friend instead of the guy because it's a fact that friends last longer than relationships. but in your case, both are your friends. so you have to choose who you value more in your life. i wish you the best of luck..
2007-03-08 06:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he already likes your best girlfriend. Maybe you might want to start touching, talking, flirting and see he reciprocates
2007-03-08 06:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by ladydaisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find yourself a GF dude.
This would solve all ur problems.
Cheers...
2007-03-08 06:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by wbahgat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
forget abt them ! if they like each other :/ i guess u can't stop it ..
let it go on and find new pple!
2007-03-08 06:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by dodi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋