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he told me he thinks im cool,but only speaks to me when it suits him, i.e. when his other friends arent around. Eg-he asked me to sit next to him in work, but then before i had a chance to move told me the seat was taken- it was taken by his guy friend and even tho there was another seat available next to him,he told me there was none.
I like him more than friend (he doesnt know this)so am i being irrational in letting that kind of thing make me feel like s**t, is it just that guys are different with their friends than girls are?

2007-03-07 22:24:26 · 6 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

Well, It could be two things...some boys like to play games and want to appear hard to get even if they do like you in the slightest. Sometimes they will act as if they are so interested in you an treat u like they really want you..other times they will act like u dont really matter to them an like they dont want to know.this is part of the process of keeping you keen...play them at their own game..or try to ignore his games and act like he is just a friend and you are not that interested..DONT BE RUDE.just act as if you are just good friends an your cool and you dont care ...an u may see a change in his behaviour ...or it could be he is just not in to you as much as u think he is...an if this is the case jus move on..im sure that u will be fine honey...if it is really bothering you and what i have just said doesnt seem to be creating a change in his behaviour...voice your feelings to him..not to the extent where ur gettin upset and emotional..just be cool with you words and state why do you act like that?

2007-03-07 22:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by LDN Chica 1 · 0 0

What has he got to hide if he likes you? If he can't treat you nice in front of his friend, he ain't worth the trouble. Ditch him and find someone who will treat you with respect. He's too much into games to be sincere.

2007-03-08 06:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0 0

he sounds totally weird, believe me if a man is acting that immature and weird you dont want to go there.

Next time he does something like that tell him to **** off and do not talk to him again, totally blank him, if he does like you maybe by doing this he might realise what a wanker he is being to you, and he might cop on!!!!

2007-03-08 06:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Delete 3 · 0 0

Hmmm, doesn't sound like normal behaviour to me. He is either embrassed about people knowing or he wants to use u and then dump without others knowing...

2007-03-08 06:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 0 0

what a jerk! he is not right for youhe should act the same around you with his friends as if you were one of them. he is not good for you try to find another guy who is better and nicer and cares about you and treats you right! hope this helps!♥

2007-03-08 06:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Audrey♥ 2 · 0 0

don,t care. nothing in it

2007-03-08 06:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0 0

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