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Well this is probaly the strangest place to put this but I need some kind of advice.
I use to love my career (IT) and used to be a real go getter. I use to take the hardest projects and enjoy when they were hard or difficult. I use to love going to classes and getting that next cert. Some of the things that have caused me to lose my zest for life are not getting to spend enough time for my daughter (She lives in Europe due to Immigration issues with her mother). I have worked hard at trying to get back to her by gaining numerous certifications. In my current work place I have people who are very incompetent and yet still argue with me about the smallest things. Also I am friendly with my boss but he micromanages the hell out me and would rather not see me not work at all. To try and regain motivation about my Career and Certifications and life in General I have tried hypnosis but it seems to work for a bit.and then stops.
I am not depressed … I just feel like hiding on some beach in South America and doing nothing forever. Actually I feel that doing nothing will bore me enough to get me motivated about life again.

2007-03-07 20:46:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

5 answers

any sort of depression can be tide over by faith in GOD and sincere prayer.

Your prayer is from your heart. Further You must have to understood the fact that God is present in our heart. This can be realised in meditation. Further we are the creation of our own destiny. As per Hindu sacred religion, we carry all good and bad deeds life after life. There is no end unless we pray for unification of self with the divineliness.
Hence there is always a possible way to complete mergence with God in this life by a simple and wonderful meditation

2007-03-07 21:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Master 4 · 0 1

Sounds like you're a pretty successful/ intelligent person at least academically, why don't you try something completely different maybe a short holiday, a different line of work where you can meet some new people, go on boat cruise for a month, work on that boat as a waiter. Dabble in a small amount of cocaine just chill out. Ive been laying bricks in the Australian heat for 7 years and one day i thought F this I'm gonna do something totally different and now i work in the dairy section of supermarket, hey its not my dream job but its cooler inside with the freezers and I've made some new friends and I'm enjoying the change of scene. Sometimes i even just sit around and kick back with some valium and morphine pills and forget about it all.

2007-03-08 08:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 0 0

It sounds like the PEOPLE you are dealing with are getting you down, not your career. Time to change gears a little and visit a place you haven't been for a while, spend some time visiting old friends who appreciate you, spend some time sitting on the beach. It sounds like you need to get geared up AWAY from work, then just go to work and just ignore the people there.
Maybe they will hire some new people who you can have a nice lunch with.
There is always a light at the end of the tunnel, it just seems hard when you're in the middle of the tunnel.

2007-03-08 07:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteRain 1 · 0 0

Try to consult your family,neighbours and freinds.Or colleagues,or me! Tell your unsolved questions and puzzles.
Life is wonderful - go pick up a snack,join in some sports,and sleep well. The next day is a beautiful day!

Talk to someone close today and relive your happiness!

2007-03-08 05:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel S 2 · 0 0

I lost excitement for life also, and cant figure out how to get it back. Are you sure you are not depressed?

2007-03-08 04:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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