i dated this girl for 2 years and she basically made me do stupid crap for her and well i kinda went to far with one because i loved her didnt wanna lose her so i ended up in jail for 8 months im only 16 and shes 15 but i adore her i still do, but when i came home she had been dating one of my best friends since the month i left, well i still tried to get her so i asked her to make me a list of everything she wanted and i would go buy it so i did, cell phones, victoria secret, music and so on, but then i asked her for a little more respect and she flat out told me no so i said ok step 2 is to drive to her house and talk to her face to face she screamed at my mom and lied tro hers and everything, well i STILL tried to talk to her and she acted kool with it, well i went back to her town because when i came home i moved, but i went back to her town and she and her new boyfriend vandelized my car, but i STILL love her, and still cry and fantasize about are future, any ideas ppl. HELP!
2007-03-07 18:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by stayin alive 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No future there. Move on young man move on.
2007-03-07 18:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by baldy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem a really a man, a man every waman want. your a man who want to take care of his gilr. But in this case, you fall hard and there were no one there to catch you. First of all please read what you wrote again, and real let in. I say this because I was there. thank god i Didn't write a list or go to jail but believe me when I say I empathy what your going through. So many people you use the world love in vain. Do yourself a favour Try to stay away from her. it gonna hurt, you will feel like your life is over, you will convince yourself you will never gonna find any one better but the truth is you will. It takes time, it takes guts. let her go. and focous on your future. and don't let other opportunity pass you by. I know it easy say than done. but you have to choose be with someone who love you for who your or someone who you make a list to buy her stuff. If she love you she will sleep in the floor, she will eat nothing but she will not let you do things might couse you to go to jail. on top of that go out with your friend. The only reason I'm respond to this topic is because of your age. and I Don't want you to regret. Good luck and go get someone hotter that her. best revage is success!
2007-03-08 03:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you have a case of infatuation!! judging by what you have wrote it was partly the females fault for leading you on. i believe you should return everthing you got for her(i hope you didnt give it to her yet) and try your best to move forward. she obviously doesnt really care about if she just moved on very quickly. i believe the best thing that did happen was you relocated to another town because distance is the best solution when trying to get over orin your case away from someone. i also believe you should not contact her what so ever dont even take her phone calls(cause she is going to call!!) because their not going to be genuine !! she probably going to call you to spend some more money on her. so dont let her and anyone else especially a female get the upper hand on you cause they will always take advantage. good luck buddy i hope this gives you alittle help in moving forward .
2007-03-08 03:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by primet21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u seem like a nice good boy .....and from what u say about this girl ...let me tell u she is no good... u need to stop and realize what she is doing ...snap out of it she doesnt love u or even cares about u.....when u were in jail she was dating someone else instead of trying to get u out ..and than when u made the list of the things of everything she wanted..if she loved u she would have said nothing ..and when u asked her for respect in return she said no so fast....doesnt that tell u something! hello...how can u still love her!!! let her go you rjust hurting yourself and plus your still young and what u should be doing is haveing fun! dont worry about her....she will get what she deserves believe me!
2007-03-08 04:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's ridiculous!
You should have never even made a list for this little scum bag girl.
She's using you for merchandise.
She dated your best friend, obviously she doesn't care so much about you.
Drop this girl, drop this love for her and if you have to get a restraining order on her and her stupid boyfriend.
Good luck :)
2007-03-08 02:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, I'll try to focus myself on something so that I can forget her. STOP being a fool, there's a lot of fish on the sea... she's not worth your love. Find someone else... much better for you!
2007-03-08 03:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...she is bad news...move on. leave her already.dont u think u r putting ur life in danger becoz of her? and she does not even love u.it very obvious sweety, im sorry. and do u think ur mom deserve to be treated that way just becoz of her? u r still young. u will find more deserving and more decent girl u will love u more....
2007-03-08 02:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by xyne_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go she just don't want you but she will use you let it go man
2007-03-08 02:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋