My boyfriend has been action strange for the past two weeks! He has been action very standoffish! It is not really toward me so much as it is everyone around him including his family! what should i do? I am really worried about him! I asked him if anything was wrong he said no, but i know when something is wrong with him! Help me out please!
2007-03-07 18:38:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him alone, if he wants to open up and tell you he will.
2007-03-07 18:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like one of 5 things. He could have committed some kind of crime like rape, robbery or murder.
People just don't act standoffish out of character out of the blue for nothing. Another thing is, he could be taking drugs. Finally, if he hasn't done anything wrong, it's quite possible he could be thinking about committing suicide.
People who committ suicide often act very strangely before they do it. If you see him giving away any of his belongings, especially things he really likes, then you know something is up with the suicide idea. People who are planning on killing themselves often give away their own things to friends before they kill themselves. I would ask him outright if he is thinking about killing himself because if you don't and then he does it, you will feel guilty even though it's not your fault, you should still ask him. Also, tell him that if he has done something wrong, you will listen and be there to help him and you won't leave him.
2007-03-08 03:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by BONNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone asks if anything is wrong, often the person will say no.
tell him, without pressuring him, that his behavior is worrying you and that you care about him and that you will be there to listen if he needs to talk.
don't keep asking, but let him know that you'll be there for him if something is bothering him.
2007-03-08 02:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are always there for him if he ever wants to discuss anything . Don't pressure him. Give him time to work out whatever is bothering him.
2007-03-08 02:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is ask if something is bothering him. if he wont talk, theres not alot you can do. pay attention to when he starts acting that way, see if there is something that triggers his anger. there has to be something that is bothering him or he wouldnt be acting that way. tell him your there for him and you will listen cuz you care about him and mabey he will open up. gl.
2007-03-08 02:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kep asking, but know when you've reached your limit. Having a girl ask if you are ok signals that you care for him, but asking too many time is just annoying and can result in hate and other negative emtions towatds you.
2007-03-08 02:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by TechPhox 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look at him deeply in the eyes...tell him that everyone cares for him and hate to see him hurt...touch his hand lightly..calm him down..and ask him whats bothering him...dont say a word..just listen to him...
2007-03-08 02:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by biker_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think anyone here can answer that
2007-03-08 02:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋