sorry guys but this is my first time to date so ur gonna have to help me with this one plz. see I am white and I am dating a black guy. I was told that it was abad idea. I know that people star at me and stereotype but I dont really care about that. so far, that is the only reason my friend said it was a bad idea. she wouldnt say anything else. is that really all? cuz if so i dont have anything to worry about but like i said this is my first so plz help me. is stereotyping really the main issue or is there something else. do they cheat or use people something. im only kidding but seriously what? thanks guys ur a huge help! :]
2007-03-07 17:14:33 · 6 answers · asked by tlmorton@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry what everyone else thinks or says if it is all depending on his race. People will/do overcome challenges in their relationships all the time...maybe this is your first. If you let what everyone else thinks about you run your life...your going to end up very confused and prob. living a un-fullfilled life. Do what you feel is right in your heart.
2007-03-07 17:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by law90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about him and he treats you the way you should be treated, who cares about race? You do what you think is right for you. Don't worry about other people's opinions even your friends. Maybe they are jealous you found a good guy.
2007-03-08 01:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they can't give you any good reason not to date him, like he's a cheater or abuser or something, then there's nothing wrong w/ dating him. Race should not be an issue. If y'all like each other thats all that matters.
2007-03-08 01:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by MJ2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in what you are doing.... It's we human who brought in the discrimination and not any one else and its our responsibility to change it.....
If you feel that he is a good guy then go a head you don't have to worry at all!!!!!!
If possible be a good role model for others:)
Go ahead sweetie
2007-03-08 01:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be from the north.Why date a black man what is wrong with the white you need help that should be out lawed in all states.
2007-03-08 01:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by captaindj40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do what you feel is right. if you like him, go for it. color doesnt make the person. you can find a crazy person in all colors.
2007-03-08 01:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by sprflash522 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋