Does he like me or not??

Question

Does he like me or is he just playing me?
I meant this guy about three month ago at the lobby in my dorm. Anyways we just starting talking again last week and he wanted to hang out which i did. I had somethings to do so he meant me in the laundry room and helped me fold my clothes then he took my laundry back up stairs for me. Later on we went to his room and we hooked up. Afterwards I asked him if he wanted me to leave for the night but he wanted me to stay with him and he cuddled with me all night. I asked him if he would ever talk to me again and he said yes tomorrow (he was being a smart ***). We've talked since then but i dont think he likes me the way i like him. How do I know if he is a player or his afraid of a relationship
Updated: After that happen I keep asking if he want to hang out sometime again but he would always say he was busy recenlty he asked for my number again b/c he got a new cell phone and he told me he wanted to hang out with me again. So what is going on?

Answer 1

I think if a guy is interested in you then he'll chase you. And no matter how busy they are, I think they will make time for you.

It sounds like he was interested initially, although guys will do anything to get what they want. He might have someone else in the picture now, or an ex might have come back into his life. In any case, he's clearly trying to put some distance between you either because he doesn't want a relationship or for another reason.

I would let him call and make the effort with you. If he likes you then he will make effort to contact you and see you, and not just see you for hooking up. Don't make it too easy and boring for him by chasing him.

Answer 2

I think he's a Player...he threw away your number after you gave it up...And he wanted to hang out with you because he was had no one that evening...I say move on, girl...there are a lot of good guys that want a relationship besides sex...but, most of them are the smart, nerdy, average looking guys...and the athletic and well-endowed guys are interested in one thing how many partners they can obtain each week...my suggestion...move on and lower your standards...peace.

Answer 3

No he doesn't. You moved to quickly and that's a mistake on your part. Why cuddle with someone that you don't even know. Suppose he has a disease? You need to take your time to avoid getting hurt. If a guy want you, he will hunt you down. If they don't hunt you down, then life goes on. Getting too close, too soon, runs guys away fast. You have to let them track you down.

Answer 4

HEY GIRL. DONT BE HIS GIRL MAKE HIM YOUR BOT. JUST BE CONFIDENT IN SUCH RELATIONS. IF YOU SHOW LOT OF LOVE HE GETS ASSURED THAT THIS GIRL IS MINE AND WILL DO ANYTHING. WHEN HE SAYS TO HANG OUT TELL HIM U R BUSY. SEE HIS REACTION IF HE GETS ANGRY OR HUNG UP THE PHONE ITS BE-WARE THE GUY IS A PLAYBOY. BUT IF HE SAYS SOMETIME ELSE YOU GIVE THE TIME AND PLACE,HE LIKES YOU.
:)

Answer 5

its difficult to say right now, but b sure u don't make urself available anytime any place for him. don't spread urself thin or u'll hv to mail a question :"do i like myself or not?"

Answer 6

He likes you so long you cuddle with him when ever he wants and not thereafter.

Answer 7

He pretty much hide his feeling little bit, but pretty sure he like you. Have fun with him.

Answer 8

He does like you

Answer 9

that is hard there is someposibility that he likes you try to be his friend maybe your going to fast for him

Answer 10

yes he does