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dont want him to leave me, we really love each other. he just thinks that iam 18 but i dont really know how should or were should i tell him that iam 17 what do you think, this is very serious in my life. please help me...
2007-03-07 17:11:06 · 15 answers · asked by jigar k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him. He will understand
2007-03-07 17:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Nicoletta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront about it at a safe location, not while your driving, not somewhere you've driven in case he gets angry and drives off.
Be prepared for him to be angry, and remember he has a right to be since it sounds like you lied.
He might need some time to think about it and reevaluate things, one lie can make people look at everything different.
Do tell him, this has the potential to make your relationship a lot stronger, and if you don't it may come back to bite you. and Good Luck!
2007-03-08 01:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by texas hearts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved him, you would not have lied about your age to begin with. You need to tell him because if any sex is involved, he could go to jail. He needs to be aware of that and isn't right now. Be honest now! If he leaves, keep in mind that honesty goes alot further in relationships and learn from it.
2007-03-08 01:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not love him you don't know what love really is. You need to tell him because you are underage and he could go to jail. This guy is too old for you and you must tell him the truth. don't be afraid if he leaves you, because that is just what he should do.
2007-03-08 01:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only place it matters is if you become sexual. In some states he could be prosecuted. It is not likely but it could happen. If he cares for you when he thinks your are eighteen then it should not make a difference if you are seventeen. Good Luck
2007-03-08 01:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he loves you like you say he does then he shouldnt care that youre 17.unless you were 10.then he should care.but i mean if youre gonna turn 18 soon.whats the big deal.but yea!you should tell him the truth.you dont want him goin to jail for not knowing you were under age...
2007-03-08 01:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my my, i thought i was the only one. its time for u to tell him. just tell him, that u were scared that u will lose him if u told him ur real age. n tell him that u can't bare lying to him anymore. don't wait till he finds out, u'll be doomed. in my cae, my bf found out, at that time, he was 23 n i'm 18, n i told him i was 20. he was damn pissed. we broke up, but then the next day, he call me up, n said that its just age matter, n he said he loves me, n forgave me,. its better u confront him bout this asap! good luck. i know its hard, but u have to do it gal.!
2007-03-08 01:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by ~ sya ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then why did you lie? You've just got to sit him down and tell him and one of three things will happen
1.) he laughs and tells you it was stupid to lie
2.) He gets pissed at you for lying and dumps you
3.) He gets really confused, kinda upsets, but the relatinoship goes on
2007-03-08 01:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you this and remember it forever, there is no age or race differences in love , if you care about him and you think he is right person for you just tell him that you are seventeen and if he likes you or loves you he will understand .good luck
2007-03-08 01:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by lucky77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully 18 is around the corner if he means so much, you might need sometime alone
2007-03-08 01:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Compa Migue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow 23 ,why doesn't he have a girl his own age? Sounds like a winner.
2007-03-08 01:14:58 · answer #11 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋