how i tell a guy that i want to go out with him but i don't want to have sex with him yet.
i meet this guy at school and he told me that he wanted to go out with me. so how do i answer him?
2007-03-07 17:09:58 · 12 answers · asked by sexychic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you want to date him. Then if he tries to get you in bed tell him you don't want to effect your relationship but you don't want to have sex yet. Your not ready.
2007-03-07 17:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by kjh06_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a question…..
Do you normally … Oh skip it….
Wear a suit of armor and go… YES. I’d like to go out with you…
Chastity belts are in Style!!!!!
Really. You’re putting the cart before the horse….
Do you think this guy wants to hook up with you or what??? Is he that type ????
If he is then do you think he is a RISK!!!
If he’s a nice guy then he won’t go looking for that type of pleasure early. Sounds like he’s all ready asked you something though…..
You giving the FULL Story here????
2007-03-08 01:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't accept going out with him. And save yourself for the right man to marry as husband when you are ready for a serious relationship only.
2007-03-08 01:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by socdo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be confident, and be you. And tell him how you feel.
Stick to your standards if he tries to make a move on you (sexually) then hes only after one thing with you. So then you know not to get involved with him
Take it easy mate :)
All the best
2007-03-08 01:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and upfront with your personality- nothing is hotter than honesty, if you start leaning away from the way you really feel or think it'll be harder to be open later on maybe not just with him, but other people. Acceptance of honesty is only the way to be happy-
2007-03-08 01:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by actuatedtendancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Yes", that you'll go out with him. It doesn't mean that when you go out you two will have sex....When your out with him show him that you have limitations....if that guy really likes you he can wait but if not well i guess his not worthy of your love...
2007-03-08 01:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Selfie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time you have to fend him off sexually, tell him emphatically how much you hope this doesn't totally end his interest in you.
Other than that, don't worry!
2007-03-08 03:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO. JUST SAY YES AND DONT SHOW A LOT OF EAGERNESS. JUST BE COOL AND CALM.IF HE TRIES TO TURN YOU ON JUST LAUGH AND SAY NO WITH CONFIDENCE. IF YOU ARE CONFIDENT THAN THE GUY HE IS YOURS. HE'LL DO WHATEVER YOU SAY AND HE'LL LIKE YOU MORE.
:)
2007-03-08 01:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by poison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're asking several different things at once. if you want to go out with him then go out with him, you don't have to have sex with him...if that's all he wants it will be pretty obvious
2007-03-08 01:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....Try being yourself! Just cause you see a movie or eat dinner together does not mean naked ness!
2007-03-08 01:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by faythzme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋