I dated a girl for about 4 months and she broke up with me in the beginning of january. I thought everything was perfect. She said she loved me and everything but just didn't think we were "right" for eachother. Well, On valentines day, she called me to hang out. Every weekend since we spend the entire weekend together and it seems like it was when we were dating. Having a lot of sex and being very intimate and very happy. All of our dates we've been on lately have been great too, going to dinner and stuff. I asked her to commit to me again and she said she wasn't ready. do you think its likely we'll get back together?
2007-03-07 17:02:27 · 17 answers · asked by mike o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forgot to mention, she did say she wanted to "take it slow" because it moved too fast before.
2007-03-07 17:14:47 · update #1
it over, tim to move on. she playing with you, she only want to
get with you when it suits her, i would let this one go and find
someone that will want to be with you.
2007-03-07 17:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not over until she is gone. It may be fine if you don't crowd her too much. Stop asking for the commitment when she is with you in every way possible. You can talk about it if she wants, but give her some room and I bet she might relax. If she gets too stressed, it might be over sooner than you want it to be.
I have made the suggestion to others that it might be a good idea to print out your favorite response on here and show it to her. That way she will know you love her enough to ask for advice. Then you might learn how she feels inside without prying and causing more stress.
2007-03-08 01:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Keep it Simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her come to you when she is ready: meaning in her own time and at her own comfort level. I know its hard when you were with someone, breakup, then when you start hanging out with them again, its very normal and likely previous feelings will resurface. But take a step back and slow it down...whatever the reason you two broke up for the first time around-you dont want to have a repeat.
Good luck!
2007-03-08 01:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is 1 of2 things she is doing. 1) She is afraid of commintment so she will not do this, but loves being with you. You thought of commintment is too strong. She probably feels like she is being held down. 2) She is just using you until she can find something better. Good luck to you. You either stick or out or you don't. You have a 50/50 chance. Question is do you want to chance it???
2007-03-08 01:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with you and all that is not commiting to you? What do you want from this girl? You have already enjoyed the fun so be realistic. Do you REALLY like her in the first place. Go figure.
2007-03-08 01:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have issues she needs sorting out or playing you for a fool while she has a dude on the side. Don't go through this yo yo of a relationship..move on and see what happens. Good luck.
2007-03-08 01:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by poemonkey1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He who cares the less wins" You should blow her off, at least some of the time, or you will never get her back, and don't be in a hurry to get back with her. If possible, you should go out with some other women, make her be the one chasing after you.
2007-03-08 01:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never can tell. Sounds an awful lot like what i went through with a guy, eventually... we got into a serious relationship again, but I wouldn't set your heart on it.
2007-03-08 01:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound liked you enjoyed but question is if she was enjoying too? ask her if she like to get back with you and you will have answer. Goodluck mate!!!
2007-03-08 01:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Spartan Total Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow her expectations were not satisfied last time, this time be more sensitive to her needs and let it proceed slowly, but respect and love her.
2007-03-08 01:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dont sound like you guys will be getting back together since she said guys werent "right" for eachother.maybe she thinks you guys are better off as friends...i dont know.but to me,it sounds like its over.sorry
2007-03-08 01:12:38 · answer #11 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋