i recently got out of a long term relationship, and there is this girl, i fell for her intially but friends were trying to hook her up w. someone she had a crush on for a while, i gave her a v-day card and when we talked about it, she got teared up thinkin bout makin a choice, i said i would brake off, just be friends, but at ski club we listened to her ipod and iris by goo goo dolls, count on me by default, and wonderwall by oasis, i feel for her again, but i dont want to make her choose, and i deff dont wanna make her cry...what do i do?
2007-03-07 17:00:16 · 4 answers · asked by vinvan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a sweet and genuine guy! If anyone is to make a move-let it be her. You cannot make someone love/like you. But I guarantee that if you let her come to you on her own time and at her own comfort level-as friends or otherwise, you will gain a trust and respect from her like no other. There is something very attractive about a decent and honest guy-that is, he is *respectable*.
Hope it works out.
2007-03-07 17:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey bro, i am feeling the exact same thing as you are (look at my question). i spent so much time on this vday card for her and she just said she wanted to be friends but now, she just ignores me and stuff. she also likes one of my friends which kinda makes me irritated sometimes and it actually makes me cry sometiems thinking about what could've been and how lucky my good friend is to be w/ her.
but all in all, i think the solution is time. sooner or later, our wounds will heal
2007-03-08 01:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ratchet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you could have her in your life either way. Either just by being friends and you knowing she will be talking to other guys. Or you could just wait until the time is right for her for you guys to start dating and she could be fully yours. You cant force someone to be with you if theyre not ready, but if you really like her then you could wait
2007-03-08 01:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not really easy to forget someone you've been through a long time.... ask your self if you really want her to be out of your life. and i think it's not! if you think you still want her and she still wants you do the first move and have a reconciliation. remember love is sweeter than the second time!!
2007-03-08 01:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋