is it really as horrible as i heard (girls)?
or does it really feel better (guys)?
2007-03-07 16:57:59 · 27 answers · asked by Kahealani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what i hear, a lot of girls dont like it. But dudes find it gross too. So i wouldnt go there...
2007-03-07 17:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kaya808 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I was so against that before, I told everyone that it was EXIT ONLY and I meant it. But my current boyfriend really wanted to do it and I wanted to give him something that I had not given to any other guy so I caved, I gave in and it really isn't that bad. Tell the guy to take it very slow at first because the first thrust hurts the most and if taken too fast will have you in tears, VERY PAINFUL! So take it very slow till it feels ok for YOU and then let him know he can go a little faster.
2007-03-07 17:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I heard it hurts like a *&^%$.....
BUT sometimes if a guy is a bit more experienced in it, use loads of lubricant, it can be quite pleasureable, because one of a womens almost "g-spots" nerve is right there....
For extra info: did u know all the mans nerve endings ends at his a.s.s hole, that if a man allowed his women to gently stroke him there, or "finger" him, he could have an even greater orgasem. And touching the base of a mans back, could send spasems to his......
2007-03-07 17:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of ignorant answers like exit only and gross you have to remember people on here are just trying to pass the time . I have been doing it with women for over 20 years. it does not stretch your anus out and it shouldn't hurt if done with patients and care. if you want more clarification or chat about it email me at miked452001@yahoo.com
2007-03-07 17:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it can be horrible if its not done in a certain way...definitely use a lot of lube...my boyfriend and i have tried it once and it *was* horrible..which is why I say to use A LOT of lube..we didn't use any..we just didn't know any better, so my first experience turned me off to it...when he's drunk though he always wants to play around down there with his fingers and once in awhile that feels alright
2007-03-07 17:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it feels really amazing...but at the same time, as a guy, its really scary because you have to be so careful and its hard to remember that if you get to into it it might hurt the girl....either way its one of those special occasion kind of things...no more than once a month id say....vaginal sex is always better in the long run for me....
2007-03-07 17:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Okay so I was the one person who swore I would never do it, I thought it was the most discusting thing imaginable and I was sure it would hurt soooo bad. But I decided to suck it up and try it at least once. So I used a condom and lots of lubricant and to be honest it wasn't as bad as I thought, I'm not saying it was pleasurable for me and I am not saying it didn't hurt for awhile while the act was taking place but it wasn't that bad. Once you start going the pain fades away and my guy liked it ALOT, I guess its tighter than the vagina and it feels good to them. So as long as u use large amounts of lubricant and you relax and not go into it being hella scared it will be fine. You may not get much out of it but your man will love you for it.
2007-03-07 17:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by natasha_randle 2 · 9⤊ 1⤋
apparently only one person so far that answered this actually understands anal sex. the rest of you idiots have never tried it, nor do you really think. you don't just 'go for it' the person needs to clean up/out first and once clean it's not bad. when it comes to sexual pleasure: some like it some don't. but it seems the people on here are narrow minded anyway so the answers to this aren't surprising. but glad my fellow non vanilla friend understands it.
2007-03-07 17:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Many girls love it, but I wouldn't recommend it. The poop shoot is for dropping poop. There should be a one-way arrow printed on everybodies butt, pointed out, but people are still going to try to use every orifice for pleasure. I'm sure some guys have tried to get there tool in someones ear. If your guy is wanting that it may be because your not using your vagina the best way. There are exercises that will make your lover love it more. Have you heard of a women having a snapper? They are the result of those exercises called Keigel exercises.(look it up)
2007-03-07 17:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Dutch 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
I've never gone there and never will because there are alot of fecal borned diseases. How do I know this because I'm a microbiologist, specialized in virology, bacteriology, and mycology. If she really want to go there, I have to put on a condom.
2007-03-07 17:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Infinite 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋