Go for her or not?

Question

I'm 17 and I worked with a girl all day Saturday, just the two of us, and really liked her, problem is she lives 40 minutes away. In 4 weeks i'll see her again at this job. Spring break is next week and I already know she's not going out of town or anything, should I call and ask her if she wants to do something next week? or should I wait to see her again when we work next?

Answer 1

well it never hurts to ask.. i mean you have nothing to lose...

EXCEPT!

When you are in a class together or your working with her

lets say your working with her... and you guys get together... everything is good and then all of the sudden you guys break up... its going to be chaotic where you work... your going to have to see the btch where you work... unless the job isnt important to you... then go for it ;)

Answer 2

Aeriz,

As I'm sure you know, the possibility of rejection causes fear; the inverse of this is also often applicable. Men get so caught up in the fear of rejection that, even before they take a shot at that special girl, their minds become so consumed with fear itself, that they end up assuming rejection without knowing what the final outcome could've been - accordingly increasing the chance of said rejection to 100% (as opposed to vastly smaller figures derived from going along with what your heart says).

If you guys hit it off for a while, and (I'm guessing) she was readily willing to give you her phone number, I'd say that you should go ahead and take the initiative by calling her.

Now... just the fact that you've gone to such lengths as to solicit a response to your predicament online, tells me that you've put a lot of thought into it, already. Always remember that there are 3 things in life that can't be taken back: a spoken word... a shot arrow.... and a missed opportunity.

I say... Go for It! But in the end, it's all up to you. Good luck :)


Take Care,
Dr. JaY

Answer 3

You should definitely call her and see if she wants to go out. Maybe a bite to eat. Maybe a movie. It's possible she could say "NO! Leave me alone!" BUT that's highly unlikely in this case so don't worry about it. More likely she may say "I'm busy but maybe some other time"and then simply suggest another time. You have NOTHING to lose and everything to gain so just pick up the phone and see what happens!!!

(crossing my fingers for you - GOOD LUCK!)

Answer 4

It seems like you should call. Why would she have given you her telephone number unless you should call if you are interested? She still has the right to decline to go. If she does, take it well without trying to change her mind, and then when you see her again, she should be happy to see you.

Answer 5

Yes, definitely give her a call. Don't wait for 4 weeks - she could find another guy in that time so don't miss out!

Answer 6

You should definitely ask her but wait until you see her at work, then mention it casually.

Answer 7

Wait until you see her.

Answer 8

telephone her suggest a fun thing then go on the fun thing

Answer 9

if you have her number...call her...she gave it to you for a reason...play it like you want to be friends...ask her if she wants to go to a coffee house or someplace where you can talk..like the mall...you have to be smooth and confindent....good luck.....OH YEAH...be prepared for rejection...happens to all us guys..you just have to learn to deal with it

Answer 10

call her for sure.. why not! you have nothing to loose.. and not only that but she probably wants you too.