Im 23 dating a 30 yr old guy for about 7 months, we have communication issues in that he doesnt talk much and it has me wondering if I should just drop him and keep it moving...he's a good guy but I need great conversations and it''s not there....should I discuss this with him or just move on...oh yea we havent spoken in a week...he's mad about something...I like him BUT...how much more silent conersations can I take?
2007-03-07 16:41:22 · 13 answers · asked by Superfly21 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You definintely need to discuss it with him. If it's bothering you, he needs to know how you feel. He can't fix it if he isn't aware of the issue. I don't know what he is mad about, but if you don't discuss that also, you can't make up! If telling him how you feel doesn't fix things, then you need to move on. You can't keep a relationship going that way.
2007-03-07 16:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say leave
if in the span of 7 months, there's a communication conflict, it's not going to be pretty as time progresses
communication is key part of relationship, especially for men to listen to women and be respectful
if that is missing, then it's really challenging to spark the relationship even more
Find another man that can have that respect for you through good communication
I'm sure either way, you will make the right choice, and you will be happy
hope everything works well
good luck!
2007-03-08 00:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by lzy8zn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!! Most of the time the "strong silent type" are just too stupid to form a sentence. He sounds like he is already distanced from you and has nothing to say so go find a nice guy who really wants to have a conversation with you. We are out there waiting for a nice girl who can carry on a conversation.... Good luck!
2007-03-08 23:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just naturally quiet. Not much will change, you can try to talk to him (or at him) about this. He's probably not just going to open up one day and talk a marathon with you. So either adjust to a comfort level you can both deal with or look for someone that can give you the conversation you want.
2007-03-08 00:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the moron. If he's this quiet now, and moody, think what a nightmare he will be once you've wasted 5 years on dealing with his issues. Good luck!
2007-03-08 00:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u love him??? Is the ?
Communication is a big need in all relationships
People love others not for who they are, but for how they make them feel.
2007-03-08 00:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by bigman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate you need to sit down and talk with him. Ask him whats bothering him. Yknw you dont wanna end things knowing that you didnt really try anything.
Just say... look hun Have i done something wrong? Please tell me....
Talk to him and just say if you keep this up then maybe we just shouldnt even be together.
2007-03-08 00:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time alone.. When the time is right you can discuss the whole thing with him.. If you can't take it anymore, move on then..
2007-03-08 00:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Callisto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really sound like this a communication problem that you
need to deal with. if you have not spoken in a week that
sign of things to come. time to move on.
2007-03-08 00:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you like him thats it, is he mad at you? If he wanted to talk and be with you he would, one week of silence better be a death in the family for me to stay in the relationship.
2007-03-08 00:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by Compa Migue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋