should i tell him goodbye?

Question

my relationship with my boyfriend is good right now. he is very sweet and considerate now, but back then, he wasn't. we have a long history (1-2 yrs) of being up & down. one day he changed and later wanted to marry me but I dumped him for half a year because I wasn't ready. afterwards, we tried to make it work but he broke it off. he then moved on with another girl but he kept seeing me, and she wouldn't put out so he lied to me by telling me he was going to dump her, to get sex from me. I regret what I did till this day. Anyway he was a jerk to her and she dumped him (after a month). but he still didn't want a relationship with me and started dating someone else. That girl was too aloof though so he later decided that he wanted a relationship with ME. Now he is so sweet and just... perfect. The thing is, our past isn't anywhere NEAR perfect. I enjoy my time with him SO MUCH, but sometimes when I'm alone, the past haunts me so bad that I start crying out of nowhere.
WHAT SHOULD i DO??

Answer 1

TALK WITH HIM ABOUT IT.
if I could italicize I'd do that instead.
you need to tell him how you feel. and preface it with the perfect part.

I'd say he's redeemed himself.

Answer 2

It sounds like you need to decide if you want to try to make the relationship work or find someone you can have a stable relationship with.

Answer 3

Sounds like he is playing head games, stay away from the game-players, you will get your heart broken.

Answer 4

Let him go. You'll only end up being hurt even more in the future.

Answer 5

I think that he's not trustworthy enough and you should dump him if he does ANYTHING that you don't like, and he DEFINITELY shouldn't have done anything like what he did.

Answer 6

find a gentleman