i like this guy that goes to college with me and we are friends, but i like him more than a friend and the thing is, one of my best friends "said" that she dated him, and i dont want to be in the middle, but i really like him like ALOT and he acts like he likes me too, but he only makes sexual comments and hints, and im not just looking for sex. i want a real relationship. wat should i do??? how do i approach him and tell him how i feel?? please help me anyone!!
2007-03-07 16:25:05 · 12 answers · asked by Haitian Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest, if you like him that much your friend should understand, let no one hold you back from chasing love, and honestly, dont lower ur standards becuz u think thts what it takes, im straight edge and every relatioship has been so much better w.o sex
2007-03-07 16:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by vinvan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can give him the goods for free like all the other easy girls and then wonder why he won't get married in 8 or 10 years.
Or, you can approach him as an aspiring women curious to see if he's an aspiring MAN. Just approach him as such -- I might like to know you better if your the type that is working on being a MAN but I don't want to wast my time on a boy looking to pump and dump me.
That covers it. If he is an aspiring man he'll be complemented and be a gentleman on weather he is interested or not. If he's a BOY he'll run or maybe even talk the talk till he finds our he's not getting the goods for free. At worst/he'll make fun of you all over campus. The god news is that this gossip (reputation) will be overheard by real aspiring young men that may in turn approach you because they'll know you not some slut.
Real men don't want sluts anyway -- and you can't be both or hide it when Mr. Right comes along. It just don't work like that.
2007-03-07 16:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you wrote it sounds to me like all this guy wants to do with you is get you in bed. Ask him the next time he does the " sexual comments and hints" if that's all he's about and if so you are looking for a long term relationship and not a short term frizzle.
2007-03-07 16:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would start by asking him on a date, and call it "a date" go out somewheres nice. Then see how it goes, hey maybe he'll ask you out for another date.
2007-03-07 16:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by spazmffn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and don't care about yo' friend. If they are done they are DONE so go for him! Good Luck Girl!!!!!
2007-03-07 16:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it looks like a pig, acts like a pig and smells like a pig, then guess what? It is a pig.
2007-03-07 16:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him know how you feel and if he doesn't want a real relationship,then just be friends.
2007-03-07 16:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by kiran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone better than him. Keep looking & Good luck
2007-03-08 00:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know the answer to this, if he looking fro sex,then'
you need to move on. he not on the same page as you are.
2007-03-07 16:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you realy like this guy and know one else, hook up and just tell him (lets just take it slow)
2007-03-07 16:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by alyssa_kaneohe808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋