This girl, that i have a good feeling really likes me, and has shown interest in alot of way has started to ask me questions that have gotten me thinking bout whether or not i should go out with her or not. She asked me the other day whether she should get back with her ex's from way back, and asked me what i thought of it.....why would you ask a guy mate such a thing, espescially a guy infact, how do we know whats best, since i dont know the ex, i dont know why she asked me at all...is the a way to see if i will spill and tell her i like her or what???
2007-03-07 16:15:09 · 9 answers · asked by d p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can tell you that I have been in such situations many times before. A lot of times girls will ask advice like this of people they trust. So it is fairly safe to say that she trusts you, which is always a good sign.
I am a firm believe in honesty, as it gets the most things done. There is nothing wrong with telling her how you feel, it may make things awkward or it may turn out wonderfully. And if you don't tell her how you feel, how will she ever know? They are not mind reader contrary to popular belief.
2007-03-07 16:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lucas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two thing:
She likes you and is feeling things out to see if you'll get jealous. If this is the case, she needs to grow the hell up. Don't show any jealousy, even if you feel it. If she sees that it isn't getting to you, she may back off with the ex questions, and then ask her out, if you still want to after such a childish ploy.
Or
She honestly doesn't feel that way about you, and she is oblivious to the fact that you like her. Ask her out. In any case I suggest you ask her out anyway, just to see if she she really does like you.
2007-03-07 16:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes asking you because pretty soon you are about to be ditched into the friend category.
This is your chance to flirt or be thrown in the friends pile forever.
Tell her hes an ex for a reason and that you are more than willing to give her a fresh start. Something new and exciting.
Man up.
2007-03-07 16:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's tryin to see how into her you are, esentially, shes tryin to get u jealous...if you're an a** hole u'll do the same thing right back, if you're half way decent, ask her right next time it comes up, it'll swwep her of her feet, and she seems to be the kinda person tht'll like tht
2007-03-07 16:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by vinvan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she likes you because i would probably do the same thing...You should ask her if she is interested.
2007-03-07 16:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by djsbabygirl2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like she likes you. She is trying to make you jelous. If you like her, maybe you should tell her. I think she is trying to get you to tell her that you like her before she "goes" back to one of her invisible ex's that she wasnt intending to back with.
2007-03-07 16:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she likes you, but if she's talking about getting back together with another guy, then she probably doesn't like you like that. tough luck... you're a guy friend.
2007-03-07 16:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by curlyr3d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she either thinks of u as a friend or shes testing you
2007-03-07 16:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's a test...she is trying to make you jealous
2007-03-07 16:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋