Guys, I like this boy and he doesn't like me... well he does but as a friend and I thought he liked me more than a friend but my EX- friend told me he liked me but it was a lie. I REALLY like him but how do I tell him I like him more than a friends w/out ruining our friendship out for him to say no if I ask him out. I mean no matter wat it's bad if I don't ask I'll regret it and if I do I'll get told no and our friendship won't be the same or we just won't talk.... HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-07 16:13:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is a situation always happen in my opinion you can tall him not directly but in directly by showing him that you want to spend More of your time with him. When ever you met him you have to talk with him about your future plane and encourage him to tell you who should be his partner and the like. I will write u more after discussing this matter with my Friends.Bye!! Aschenek
2007-03-07 16:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by mahider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa !!!!!
Go SLOW !!!!!
Let the friendship be enough for now. As you learn one another --- Let it blossom.
Either it will be or it won't.
I'd rather have a devoted friend than to have a ruin friendship.
With being friends --- Once in now --- Each one would have a shoulder to lean on. So don't rush it.
My wife and I started of as friends for many years --- Now we've been married for now @ 28 years since Feb. 14. 07.
I hope that I have helped in some way or ?
2007-03-08 00:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Old Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wile witig this i realized im not going to get 10 points but this will be the most helful coming from a 15 y/o guy whos...beenaround the block lets say. NO guy and i mean No straight guy has girls that are "just friends" unless hes gay... i'm sure he likes you whether he has told anyone or not or if anyone hs figured it out, just start kinda flirtin with him or just flat out ask him out,do it wen he's alone tho other wise he might get embarassed and say no in front of his friends just to show off (sad but i've done it be4) so ya do that and it'll work out, best of luck
2007-03-08 00:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of chances...You will never know till you jump in with both feet and ask! Don't put words into his mouth by assuming what he will say or think! You will never know till you try...maybe he wants it as much as you but is thinking the same as you, that it will ruin the friendship!!!!
Good luck sweetheart!
2007-03-08 00:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by reifrj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is confront the problem for urself.ask him if he has the same feelings for u.it may not be easy,but we got to things for ourselves in life... thats what life is about... and if he denys u.... Move on,it will hurt a lil,but i suggest not to continue the friendship if u have feelings for him still,it will just hurt u more and more in the long run.
2007-03-08 00:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by bostonzerosix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him until he likes you back in a similar way, or else it could make things awkward. Enjoy him as a friend for now!
2007-03-08 00:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well this is how it is, those are your feelings, can't change them they are what they are. tell jim about it, see what happens, but whatever you do, do not make him feel like he is forced into anything...but you should take the first move, no doubt, who knows, maybe he'll say yes!
2007-03-08 00:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by vinvan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he has a girl friend.so forget him and do your homworks because examination is soon. kiss you
2007-03-08 00:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Brave heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus speak to him abt condoms n g strings
2007-03-08 00:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rico 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk to him and se what he likes
2007-03-08 00:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by hgughgudjdjdj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋