We are both 13. i have had a crush on her since i was 11, but now i want to go out with her. what is the best way to tell her i like her
2007-03-07 15:28:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does she talk to you a lot? are you friends? are other people in your grade dating already?
well, if you answered "no", then you should probably get to know each other better and see where it goes from there...
and if yes, then, just tell her. just say "hey, i know this sounds weird, but i think you're awesome and i like you and it'd crush my heart if you didn't go out with me" or something like that...speak from your heart, whatever comes to mind. the only the you DON"T want to do is if she rejects you, stalk her and try to get her to go out with you. all you really need to do is relax and try to go with the flow, whatever your heart tells you to do!
also, there's no age limit to love...even if this isn't love, there's no age limit... who choses the magic number when it's "o.k." to feel attracted to someone? if you're attracted to someone, you are, and your age doens't affect it. i was in love at 13 i know for sure that it wasn't less than later on in life...
good luck!
2007-03-07 15:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a heads up but more than likely thats going to be the girl that crushes your heart.
But its fun to start off, so, just man up and let her know.
You'll get all kinds of nervous, but shes probably got a little thing for you to.
Normally the opposite becomes friends because of some kind of attraction before they have anything in common.
Youre 13, a movie date always sounds good. Or even hanging out at the park or beach depending on where you live of course is chill.
Good luck.
2007-03-07 23:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just infatuation. dont jump into love...thats a big word. When you have a crush it doesn't mean your inlove.. so in my opinion take it easy your so young get to know each other more :) you can always show you like her through actions, there is nothing wrong showing that you care about her.
2007-03-07 23:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by ro_bertah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, make it simple and speak from the heart.
Dont drop the L bomb on her but tell her how you feel.
Then afterwards if she accepts, go and offer your hand so she can hold it and go somewhere.
Sounds cheesy, but when she looks back shell be like "Oh, and he took my hand....it was so sweet!!!"
2007-03-08 01:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe!!! <3 Just flat out tell her that you have feelings for her and just ask her out okay? And if she turns you down, just tell her or just remember to tell yourself that it takes a lot of courage to ask a guy out.
2007-03-07 23:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude dating at this age is a no no what you could do is just go to movies ,amusment park , carnivals with her just as a friend ok , just play it cool ok dude!
2007-03-07 23:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by nirvan m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open your mouth and let the words come out,be yourself
2007-03-07 23:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both too young.
2007-03-07 23:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go home and study your portions
2007-03-07 23:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not rocket science............just tell her
2007-03-07 23:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by josiesmom305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋