why are missleeastern man playing games they say yes we can marry christian women move out w/u live a life together 3 yrs go 2 there country to marry a chosen wife because they trust their god & parents & marry her with their eyes shut & come back & say i need to break up my wife is on her way they after u devoted all that time & they make promises focusing on school etc. 1st i did nothing w/him & he say that's why i luv u -u not like all american wild girls-when they meet u they want 2 force u 2 say I love u & they say without knowing ur heart inner u why theses games!!!!
2007-03-07 15:27:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't blame all arab men, you are pissed off now, understandable, but believe me, it is not how they all are, you were with a jerk. I have been with my arab husband for 12 years. You can't say they all do that, and don't listen to the people who just hate all muslims and arabs in general. People are all different, don't judge them all based on a few jerks. They don't all do that. i live in Kuwait, and all of my friends are american's married to Kuwaitis, there are hundreds here, so please listen to me when I say I know what I'm talking about.
2007-03-11 01:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by ummaseela 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is not only for you...I am a woman that knows what she is talking about...it is NOT fair at all to point out Arab men in this matter...look how many American men, married and cheating and lying....etc...and fill your life with promises that is bull....
Arab women are NOT considered second or third or nothing...the issue is they don't screw around; they do it the legal way, they get married....THEY must get the woman consent before they marry again, something American men don't even worry about, they just leave the kids and go to another woman....its not like that...
This is not really a cultural thing sweetie, this is the man you have...he is making up excuses about he has to marry someone he doesn't know and all the stuff...he knew that before he got married to you...he is a lying cheat...MY brother did the same thing to a Beautiful American woman, she has been divorced from him for 20 years and she is still my best friend, I hate my brother for what he did, but its on him...not the culture.
I love American men, Arab men and whatever men...you must look at the man as a whole...and you must be smart to make your choices wisely...do not blame him and the society for it.
Good luck.
2007-03-15 06:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ariana 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, i know about them more than you can imagine. yes, most arab men force girls to say i love you because they just want sex as they dont get it at their homes. and the only reason why a man would marry a woman he did nt know is that he is a loser and a pervert. not all arab men are like that of course. i had a friend that had an arab friend that changed his religion for her and he's just so yound, 19 i think, and he lives with her now. but basically, they are just manipulative.
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2016-05-18 11:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by vicente 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you knew in the beginning their dedication to religion family and culture comes first. And besides, what American man wouldn't do the same and fill you full of broken promises if you let him.
From what Ive heard woman are secondary thirdly fourthly whatever in their country, obviously you are not ready to fill that role. Look at this as a blessing and lesson.
Sweetie, women have to think with their brain and not their heart, look at what part you played in this relationship, we are the only ones to blame ourselves. I cant tell if you are heartbroken or mad, either way next time pay attention to what you already know. your losses could be much greater. god bless you and good luck (Think)
2007-03-07 15:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by betsyturminyen 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow im just stunned here, why are you discriminating arabs i really dont see anything wrong here, is it just the arab guys who "play" on women, NO! there are many many many guys who play on women, and i shouldnt forget to mention women too...my point here is that try to find someone who is actually decent, you would know the person's intentions from the inside, you probably didnt get that...no offense, and im just shocked from these pointless remarks which are just deiscreminated and unpleasing
2007-03-07 15:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by its_keeps_getting_better 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's sad to say honey, that sound like any man, just with slightly different events. Start with your self first, you had to feel or sense a red flag go up, when he pressed you to say I LOVE YOU.
2007-03-15 13:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are all about controling women. It's not about you. It's all about them. They can't consider women as equals so they think they can do whatever they want. And because the women are "beneath" them, it's perfectly ok.
2007-03-15 15:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Buckwheat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think here the problem is not the arab men, the problem here is your husband unless you have been with tons who followed the same course of action.
2007-03-07 15:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are there property, That's how they were raised
2007-03-07 15:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋