I've been w/ this guy for 2 yrs now. lived w/ him for 8 months. im 33 wks pregnant w/ his baby & things were not financally working out 4 us & we wanted 2 get situated B4 the baby comes (have a house, car, etc.)so we decided he go back 2 his hometown 4 like 3 wks or so 2 get help from his family & me get help from mine...he's now in OK & im in FL. im nosey & wen he dont pick up his phone i listen 2 his vioce mail. ANYWAYZ...the only girls he talks 2 is me & his mom & sisters. i kno 'em all. about a week ago a girl left a messege on his vioce mail that i know is no one in his family saying stuff that sounds like they R in some relationship. i talked 2 him about it & he said it was 4 his bro... his bros "girl on tha side" that calls his phone so his bros wife dont kno about it. then today sum girl calls his vioce message saying "hey, BABY" he claims he dont kno who she is then i ask 2 give me a # he "dont kno" from his miss call list he said im the only one on there! is he cheating on me
2007-03-07 15:26:42 · 4 answers · asked by *Gina* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chances are if you have to ask....he's probably cheating on you. You've been with him for two years..you know how he is, you know if he's trustworthy or not.
Womans intuition is seldom wrong. If you really thought it was nothing you wouldnt even be questioning his explanation. So unless you're a suspicious person by nature, somethings up.
If you're dialing into his voicemail then you can dial back the number that left the message yourself, particularly with sprint and verizon. So he doesnt have to actually give you the number
If you're still curious ask him this question to feel him out.
-Tell him you're going to call the number back to tell the girls you dont think they should be dating a married man. See his reaction..if he freaks competely and goes ballistic out then the calls are probably for him. If he takes it in stride more calmly but just asks you not to get in his brothers business, then hes probably telling the truth.
2007-03-07 15:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by LawyerBarbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be. If you can, the next time she calls, either call her back or answer it and ask her who she's asking for. Does he act distant around you or anything like that? In case he is cheating on you do you have a plan on how to support you and your baby? Sorry this isn't much help but I hope it works out well for you. Good luck.
2007-03-07 15:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Phyll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that he is. Because if he has girls on his voicemail and everytime you talk to him about and he always denies it then yes he is cheating. By the way if you want to to me further on this call me at 317-717-3026 my name is mark.
2007-03-07 15:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mark L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think there has just been someone playing tricks on you
2007-03-07 15:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋