she still loves me alot it's just that it's almost as if we're only going through the motions at this point is there anything i can do to get her more into it (we're waitin till marriage for all y'all in the gutter haha)
2007-03-07 15:20:27 · 6 answers · asked by will B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sounds to me like she's probably just getting comfortable. I mean, this can be good and bad. (I've done this before with my boyfriend, too)
Think of things you two did together when you had those "butterfly" feelings about each other. Take her to the place you met her at, or where you went on your first date, or show up with flowers....yah know something that girls usually love.
Or, just talk to her. Tell her how you feel, because in my opinion, its sexy when a guy knows how to communicate. Dont let this become a problem! Talk it through, and I'm sure she'll help figure stuff out to "spice things up". Good luck. You two will be fine, same thing happened in my relationship and we're doing better than ever now. I'd say its pretty normal!
2007-03-07 15:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by *LaUrEN* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its been my personal experience that relationships have their ups and downs. I went through a time like this with my husband when we weren't married. She is probably really stressed at the moment. Things going on at work, studies, family, etc all affect her moods and will make her not 100 percent when you guys are together. I am saying this because she may seem bored because she is busy thinking of other things rather then paying attention to whats going on. Other things is that you guys maybe spending alot of time together. After we got married we got to point where we realized that altho we love each other a little break doesn't hurt. So on the weekands which was our set time together, we decided to go out of town or hang out w/ someone else, and it gave us time to miss each and yet we were still having fun. No matter what it is you just need to be patient with her and let her figure it out. Let her know that you are there for her no matter what and love her. Your support will mean the world to her and possibly get her back to the way she was before. Good luck
2007-03-07 15:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by aysha a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just stressing and doesn't know how to tell you. She might have changed her mind about the relationship. You really shouldn't be asking us...you should be talking to her. Keep the communication going. Oh, and diving into the gutter a little...you don't have to have sex, you can still have a lot of fun doing other things in the bedroom.
2007-03-07 15:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something sure sounds wrong.....you obviously are not communicating....and you need to find out what is bothering her....just boredom doesn't sound right unless she has lost interest in your whole relationship and doesn't want to tell you....better to find out now, than later.
2007-03-07 15:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know, cant differentiate love from happiness. or excitement thus, i suggest a cool off for both of you to try to live life without one another, and by that may you realize what you really want.
2007-03-07 15:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More into what?
2007-03-07 15:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋