can i have sex before marriage with my fiancee?

Answer 1

sure if you want to burn in hell

Answer 2

You most certainly can but the question is, "Should you?". Simply put, "Don't". God does not approve of it. The Bible is clear on that. when you have sex before marriage, you leave a window open for the devil to enter your relationship.

How this happens is that when you commit such a sin, you walk out of the protection of the Lord. Remember that God is light and that darkeness which is sin and light cannot dwell together. When you walk out of God's presences, who's terretory do you enter? The devil's. He enters your relationship from there on becayse he has a legal right and he will ruins things for you both gradually.

Don't do it. Don't trade in a life of joy for a few moments of forbidden pleasure.

Answer 3

Presumably you have some religious beliefs or you would not be asking the question here. Assuming as such, what are the doctrines of your faith with respect to sex outside of a marriage?

If you are a Christian, the God's teaching's in the bible clearly prohibit intercourse outside of marriage. To do so would be a sin to God.

Since you are planning to marry, why the rush? Apparently, you have waited some time already, no? Keep yourselves chaste until the wedding night and you will be thankful you did so all your lives.

Answer 4

No you can not have sex before marriage with your fiancee if you both have a good morale.In whatever religion,having sex before marriage is prohibited because both of you will have sin.If you do this only based on you love each other and you both want it just you have no difference with animal.Animal can having sex whereever and whenever they want.Humans have good morale and faith.Your privy and her privy are sacred.You can give and receive each other when you are legal after you got married..If you did it before marriage the losser is always the female.

Answer 5

Think of it this way. Imagine how much excitement it will add to your wedding day. I waited until my wife and I were married, and I've always pitied others who don't wait. It's like, what's the celebration about? They've already had the fun part of the experience!
Of course, there's lots of other good reasons to wait. To show your obedience and devotion to God's commandments, to show each other that you honor each other, to be able to tell your kids they should wait. Years from now, I think you'll look back and be glad you waited. It's been 3 1/2 years and I'm glad my wife and I waited. What an amazingly wonderful day it was! If you give it up now, you'll have a nice day still, but it won't be as good as it could have been.

Answer 6

No. You cannot have sex until you are married under any circumstances.

1 Corinthians 6:18 - Run away from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.

Colossians 3:5 - So put to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you. Have nothing to do with sexual sin, impurity, lust, and shameful desires. Don't be greedy for the good things of this life, for that is idolatry.

Answer 7

Sounds like your looking for a free pass. The question is to discuss between each other how important your faith is in your life. My experience is if you are already engaged ( and plan to get married within a reasonable time frame) there is nothing to be gained by not waiting. By waiting it will become a point of strength and honor which will only strengthen your faith, and love.
If you go for it. somehow it will fester in the back of your mind and when anything gets stressful (as life always will) your mind will point your transgression as a possible cause. Your guilt will cause you not to embrace your faith as strongly as you need (shame) at the time you need it the most.

Answer 8

well any one can do any hting, you could kill ur self or break ur hand, so you can do any thing u want. but u need to make sure that what u do is good for u or won't harm u.
as the way u asked the question, i think you shouldn't, because it seems like his asking u to have sex with him, and u don't want to or you don't know what to do or you don't know how to say no.
well if his ur fiancee, you'll get married soon, and then u could do anything u want.
trust me there is ABSELUTLY NOTHING WRONG WITH SAYING "NO", just tell him u prefer to have sex after mariage.

Answer 9

Yeah you can. Oh but it would be a sin and so you shouldn't. I had sex with my wife before marriage and I wish we would have waited but that horse is already out of the barn.

Answer 10

Of course you can. The question is, should you? Personally, I don't see any reason not to, if it brings you both happiness and hurts noone. Obviously, others would disagree, either on religious grounds or on the basis that it would "cheapen" your relationship. But ultimately, only you and your fiancee can decide what's best for you two; you can't base your actions entirely on the moral judgments of others. I say, do whatever you think will have the best short-term and long-term consequences, for your specific situation.

Answer 11

Yes. Can I?
What sort of rediculous question is this? First you need to ask her, that way you will know if the possibility exists. Then you need to understand the consequences and decide if you are prepared to accept those consequences. Then you need to make a decision.
If you want to know if ou will burn in hell for eternity the answer is I don't know.
If you want to know if God approves I also don't know.
If you want to know if your fiance will respect you afterwards I can only say that she may not and why run the risk.