my ex boyfriend wnats me to give things another shot. we have 3 kids together and were together for 8 years. untill 3 months ago he left for a 19 year old (i m 23, and he s 25). she drives him mad and really wants me back. should i try it or just leave well enough alone??? help cause i have my life and my kids to worry about too. clueless, need help preferably from someone older than me...............
2007-03-07 15:13:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you haven't mentioned what you want. think about that. he willingly left you after 8 years. you need to ask yourself is he coming back because he wants to be there or is he coming back because he has no where else to go. you have to move on with your life. you have children, they don't need to see a revolving door for your ex to walk through when his whim doesn't work out. your young enough to change your life for the better. with or without him. it sounds like he wants to be able to fly off to never land when a cute little girl shows interest in him. now after 3 months, he cant handle it anymore, so he wants to go back to whats familiar. and that would be you. how much are you going to trust him after he left you and came back. oh so many questions. but those are a start for you. my vote is for you to move on with out him.
2007-03-07 15:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not older than you but I think you should give him a chance. I'm a guy and i know that guys are idiots... we see something and irrationally go after it. Once we realize what we left behind and how stupid we really are we try to repair the damage. Often it goes unrepaired. But if you have 3 kids together and were together for 8 years I'm sure that he is truly sorry. Plus you have your kids to think about... do you want them growing up without their real father? Just give him another chance... If he screws up again then you can go ahead and forget about him because he doesn't deserve you!
2007-03-07 23:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by christcansaveyou2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the father of your children so he probably deserves a chance, but I would be very careful. He is really going to have to prove himself. If he did it before what's to stop him from leaving you again for some other fling.
2007-03-07 23:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. if you really love your kids, go for it, try it again for good, if and only if he is serious now with his family.
2007-03-08 00:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋