I am really suffering this guy I met in texas we instantly fell in love and we went out for 3 months we had a long distance relationship he came to my city for my birthday and I went there just to see him. The week before I called him and he really acted weird well I get there and we go out to eat and he tells me ge has a gf I said I kinda thought so because you never call me back and ur acting werid. I did not cry once I was just upset I slammed the door in his face and told him to go to hell. The next day I saw him and he said forget about what I said about you being immature he said this thing with me and her is nothing I really love you but because you live so far away I thought this would be best. So heres the thing I either want him bcak or some advice on how to get over him.
2007-03-07 15:04:16 · 8 answers · asked by Joanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This a hard one. Sorry for the way we males act but that's how it goes. I suggest erasing every trace of him and find some guy that wont treat you that badly. No girl deserves that but it happens. Sorry. Hope i helped. Good luck.
2007-03-07 15:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by LJD4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose the proper perspective. Right now you have tunnel vision and all you can focus on is him. But mentally step back and realize he's just one guy in a city which is in an even bigger state which in turn is in an even bigger country, which in turn is on an even bigger planet. Visualize this planet in front of you. Now, imagine how many wonderful guys there are on this huge planet that you could be investing your time in that you would probably have better chemistry with. Don't settle! Wait for the right thing and you won't have to fight for it. Love is like a dance. If you're constantly tripping over each other you've got the wrong partner. It will feel so right when you find the right one. You'll know when it's right. This isn't right.
Good luck and good love!
2007-03-07 23:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often times in a relationship it is very hard to keep your guy especially when you are in a long distance relationship. I think the reason that he told you is not true, give him a chance to have a space and so as yourself... If you really meant for each other it would be you and him together but you you are not then move on and try tobe mature. Maturity is very important in a relationship.
2007-03-07 23:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Dude_chariz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens.... Long distance relationships are really difficult to work. U cant c him everyday cant talk to him all the time. I think jus try and find out if he really really loves u.Just the way he is confused bout u & the other girl ask him to choose. But do not let him feel that ur life wil get screwed if u dont get him.
Jus wait and watch. B strong and if u love him soo much give him a 2nd chance but if u find him da same again then u no wat to do.....................
2007-03-07 23:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Rohan Kapadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you done the right thing ,he doesnt love you he was just using you,how can you love someone and be with someone else.if i where you i would let his other gf no cause he doesnt care about her either. theres no telling at the woman he has.and telling them the same story.your way better off then not to have a man.there just a headach.
2007-03-07 23:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by bridget j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else dear. Distance is not really an issue if you truly love someone. It might be unhandy, but it can work. My wife lived halfway around the world. Visit your local church and God bless.
2007-03-07 23:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by baldy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not into you...he just wants sex. Forget him. If he really was into you, there wouldn't have even been the issue of the other girl. He just thinks that you will give it up for him and that is all he wants.
2007-03-07 23:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by JLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will let your wounds heal.. he probably does have a girl frined especially if he is good looking in texas
2007-03-07 23:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by dazed n confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋