Ok so I've been going out with this guy now for like 4 weeks and I am getting soooooo sick of him!!!! But when i I dump him or when he dumps me I need him and I want to be wit him!!! I don't know what to do cuz I want to be with him but I hang with soooo many guys that I flirt with them so i guess i want to be single and I don't want him to be wit someone else!!! PLZ help i am sooo confused and my stomache hurts!!!
2007-03-07 14:35:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you both have been together for ONLY 4 weeks and in that time you both manage to dump each other and get back together again, then something is really wrong with you two,..my advice....Let it go and keep it pushin....espeacially if you are still trying to date other people. You are not ready for a relationship.
2007-03-07 14:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Heavens to Betsy. You want your cake and eat it too. That's going a bit far. Even for a single man. Look Take a good hard look at yourself. do you want him at all.
Here's something.You only need to see him in the weekends
Don't go over board and do the seven days and nights thing.
Once a week is ample, Movies or what ever One day out of seven is plenty. That way you don't tire of each other.
Happy hunting
2007-03-07 22:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally natural. It seems like you just want to be with someone, to be frank. You really don't like the guy or the idea of a relationship, you just like the idea of a boyfriend. Take it slow, one day at a time. If you've got other guys that like you, heck, I would just have fun dating right now. Nothing serious. But it is not fair to this current guy if you feel this way and are keeping him around. Cut ties now, to be fair.
2007-03-07 22:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w you, you sound "sooo confused". You've spent 4 wks w someone you don't even respect and you're "hanging out w soooo many guys" too.
This tells me you are scared to be alone. Which is exactly what you need right now, to be independent so you figure out who you are and what you need and want.
2007-03-07 22:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him before you both get hurt.You are being a flirt to try to impress but all you are doing is hurting him.He shouldn't have to put up with it either.How would you like him to be a flirt around your girlfriends? Trust me you would hate it.Stay single until you are ready for a steady relationship.There's nothing wrong with being good friends.Then see if it turns into something different.
2007-03-07 22:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys should take a break and see how you both feel? Maybe when you break up with him you only want to be with him cuz your sad. Maybe you should try a longer break like a few weeks and see if you truly miss him or you are just having post-break up sadness or something.
Becuase if you flirt with other guys...thats not fair to your boyfreind
2007-03-07 22:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Megan V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are sooo many more fish in the sea. You dont want to fell this way your whole life. Move on for bigger and better things
2007-03-07 22:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by sexiest1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like him that much then keep him. Its ok to flirt with other guys cus he is going do it with other girls. its just best not let him know or do it when any of his friends are around.
if you are getting sick of him then just tell be like its not that i don't like you or don't want to be with you but i need a little space. or w/e have one of your g/f tell him to like give you a little space etc... cus any guy will listen to the girl he likes gf lol
2007-03-07 22:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Keven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just do not want to be alone......you will be a much stronger person when you learn you do not need to be with a man 24/7 to be whole
2007-03-07 22:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by healthynow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting real with yourself and be responsible for your actions and decisions. Playing with another persons emoticons to suit your needs is irresponsible and selfish. Grow up!
2007-03-07 22:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋