I really find a guy named Randy attractive, he drives a bus for the city of Cedar Rapids, IA. All I know about him is that he is single.
I am pushing 40 and have no clue how to approach him or if I even should, I have been involved in 2 bad marriages both were abusive and I am not sure about the trust issues, But I really want to try to talk to him......please help if you can.
2007-03-07 14:33:40 · 4 answers · asked by Serenayowlerlove 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your 39 ? and you asking people on yahoo ask for help on dating ? you should know better! Ok now to your Q : Go talk to him leave out that youve had two failed mars drop all the baggage about trust issues there only cop outs anyway .Ask him for coffee nothing can go bad with coffee , if he dont drink coffee suggest sodas .Tell him later about the trust issues if you have to on the second date ,Look you have only rejection to fear not him and if your still loooking good at 39 you dont have to worry about that
2007-03-07 14:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"say Randy, if I slip you my phone number can you speak tonight"?
then he's not distracted at bus work. just "put out" and don't get so much into your emotions anymore.
2007-03-07 14:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with small talk!! It always works for me.
2007-03-07 14:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's out of your league.
2007-03-07 14:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋