i snaped and started yellin and now she wont even answer my calls or anything she wont talk to me at school or even acknoleged me so what should i do?
2007-03-07 14:31:50 · 23 answers · asked by death rider 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be sweet to her by giving her gifts to show how much you love and care for her. Don't let her cold shoulder stop you from loving her. Be persistent by being sweet to her even if shes being mean to you, she'll come around eventually.
2007-03-07 14:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by OOOOLALA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't know the reason to why she is ignoring you, then try and talk to her about it and if she wont answer talk to her friends and if that doesn't help. Try and say sorry, and if that still doesn't work then just let some time past and just stay calm about it. I know its hard when your bf/gf is mad at you, its really hard but sometimes there just isn't anything you can do, and actually sometimes trying to make things better only makes things worse.
I hope that helped and I hope you figure things out.
2007-03-07 14:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by rocciaballo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from a girl, sometimes we need our space for a while after a fight and need to cool off. She just needs to think things out and calm down. Give her a day or 2 and then call to appoligize. Also what could help is if at school slip her a liitle sorry note or leave her a rose saying im sorry on it and it may just bring her around to talking to you again.
2007-03-07 14:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing with my boyfriend recently, and the realtionship just got worse and worse to the point that we may be breaking up soon. show her you are really sorry and that you care. buy her a bunch of flowers or do something impressive and big. its not like you have to do something that costs money to get her back, but the fact that you would take your own earned money and spend it on her is sometimes a good gesture that you care. it could be as simple as writing her a poem that says your sorry (even if you suck at poetry). just get creative and really put your heart into it.
2007-03-07 14:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time to cool down. she won't think you're ignoring her because she's very well aware you've been trying to call. after sometime, go to see her privitally, at her home or something, not at school, and apologize. explain why you snapped and started yelling. bringing flowers or something could help.
its EXREMELY IMPORTANT that you do not say "won't do it again" as an ending to your apology. chances are you will get into another fight and if you yell, that comment will come back to bite you in the ***. Good luck
2007-03-07 14:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send or give her a card. Inside write this. I am sorry I snaped at you and the yelling was not right. You know I care for you and I hope you will forgive me. I miss you. Love, ?
2007-03-07 14:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by zack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends why you yelled at her and if you were very meen when you yelled at her girls are emotional so if it was a bad yell move on she wont forgive but if it wasnt then send her flowers and a card that says you are sorry and then she will come to you
2007-03-07 14:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u scared her by your behaviour.i can understand y she is avoiding u.u she probably saw something in u that day that she didnt like.she is probably afraid that u are going to hurt her or something.try to explain to her what happen to make u snap and tell her u are sorry and that it would never happen again.maybe her friend can help u to talk to her. good luck.
2007-03-07 14:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by macy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time and space to cool down and then talk to her. Explain your reason for yelling and apologize for if you upset her.
2007-03-07 14:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss up big time, let her know your sorry for being such an ***,that you weren't in a good mood and she just kinda set you off, flowers, dinner out,candy, but flowers usually work with an apology, good luck, my dear
2007-03-07 14:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋