a girl that moved away in 7th grade( now in 10th )recently sent me a myspace message. ever since we have been really close talking every single night for hours. we both have told each other we like each other, more than friends. problem is i live in florida and she lives in seattle. the good news is that she is visiting during the summer. any advice to keep this relationship going?
2007-03-07 14:24:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No distant relationships don't work. But keep her as a friend so when she does come you guys can be more then friends while he is there. And when I say friend I mean like more then a friend a playful type of person. But you can always try it. But you just won't ever have the connection you want sense she is sooo far away. BEST OF LUCK and I hope that if you do decide to do distant relationship it works just don't be mad if it doesn't
2007-03-07 14:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in 10th grade. That's not to say that you don't have feelings, but people your age need to stop thinking about serious relationships so much. You haven't even discovered who you are yet at age 16 or 17, so why make as drastic a move as to pursue a long distance relationship with somebody, something that 27 year olds even have problems with? You live on opposite sides of the country. Are you expecting to date over the phone for 8 years and then move in with eachother once you have your own houses? You need to experience life as a young person. Don't grow up too fast. You'll regret it later.
For now, talk on the phone, have fun, and if she comes to visit and you end up making out all week, have fun with it. But forget all the long distance relationship stuff.
2007-03-07 14:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by D L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, don't put yourself in this kind of long distance situation. I'm guessing youre in high school and you have a few years left to go. Try and find someone closer to home and keep her as a friend. After all, once she comes to visit in the summer, she'll have to eventually go home. then what are you going to do?
2007-03-07 14:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate 2 be a downer but it's not gonna work if ya'll are living in different states sooner or later u gonna c someone dat u like that lives/ goes 2 da same school as you and then you'll be ify trust me i've been der. but you can go ahead and try no harm doin'.
2007-03-07 14:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy i have a girlfriend who lives in germany, spoke alittle english when i met her, but now she speaks fluent english and i am trying to learn german for her. i live in toronto, Canada and our relationship is great, we visit each other 2 times every 4 months, as soon as im done university i plan on living there with her for a while. long distance relationships work. if mine can work so can yours and i have a longer distance.
2007-03-07 14:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it is a bit scary, but there is no problem in just being you.
Buy her a small token teddy bear and a pink rose when the visit happens.
2007-03-07 14:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitley keep in touch, but do not get to involved you are to young to be worrying about someone so far away. You never know what could happen in the future so just keep your friendship going.
2007-03-07 14:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋