going to a movie, but with a friend?

Question

I like this one girl. I was never sure if she liked this other guy, but I took the first step in asking her to go to a movie. I IMed her to ask if she would like to go to a movie. She said she could, but then asked who was I going with. I said I'd call a friend. Why did she ask if I was going with anyone else? Did this mean she wasn't really comfortable? Should I call my friend if I want to get close to her? I want to be more than friends, but I want to make a move on her without her actually know that I'm trying to hard.

can't i just say my friend had other plans, and its all good?

Answer 1

I would think most women being asked to go to a movie would automatically think that it was just the two of you unless the way you worded it sounded like a group thing. Depends on if you have gone to a movie before with a group and she went along she might assume that was the case again. Or she new you were asking for a one on one and does not want to do that and asked who else was going so you would get a hint it wouldn't be just the two of you.
That's my best guesses anyway.
Good Luck.
Actually when she asked who else was going you probably should of said I was hoping just me and you. To late now but maybe next time.
Don't be afraid to ask, if she is a nice girl the worse she will say is no. And trust me if you are young you are going to hear so many more of those.

Answer 2

Maybe she just wants to know the number of people going to movies instead of you and her. You see, she is trying to find out if it is a date or not.

Answer 3

When she ask "who you was going with", you should say, "you I hope". and smile. If she is uncomfortable, does not hurt for you to take a male friend along and her a girlfriend.

Answer 4

So she is comfortable. She want to play with you.