In high school I was teased by some students including girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman or women I want and when I came back home I insulted those girls who teased me in high school that want me now. Is that great revenge.
2007-03-07 14:02:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. It's childish and doesn't make you any better than they were. The best revenge is living well. By insulting them you showed them that they got to you, and that after all this time it STILL bothers you. It would have been better to smile and have been gracious. It would have hurt them worse, and made them realize what they missed. Now they just think you're a jerk.
2007-03-07 14:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are no longer a kid in high school it is most important to think and behave like an adult who does not need to hurt anyone for any reason. The past is over so get on with your life and forget about the insults your received during those painful years. You are now an attractive and mature man who has a lot to offer so please begin by offering yourself the maturity and wisdom to forgive.
You must understand that while external good looks may prove appealing, it is really what's on the inside that counts.
I wish you the best.
2007-03-07 22:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called karma, and while they will get what is coming to them because of the way they treated you, you just opened up a whole new can becuz of your insults...
in the future, the best pay back is living your life, being happy, and never once stopping to let them know that they were even a minor whisper in your head....
2007-03-07 22:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by daisy31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs wont make it right. regardless how a gal treat you, you should never disrespect a female. Just as a female should never disrespect a male. So that means disrepcting each other will aonly bring troubles in your life. Let it go!!!!!!! How would you feel if someone did that to your mother? Never think to do harm to another, especially a female!!!!! WHATS WRONG WIT YOU!!!!!
2007-03-07 22:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by sexifemme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are better ways to live your life. Don't be so petty. You really think this is all worth your effort? Do you really want to associate yourself with the same behavior you clearly despise? You went to college right? You should be smarter than this.
2007-03-07 22:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by THUB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the best revenge you can give them, is to be happy. Do not lower yourself to their standards with insults. Thats immature, and you have risen above that.
2007-03-07 22:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This probably isn't the answer you want to hear, but by ignoring them, it shows that you are the bigger person. They will be a lot more jealous now that you are good looking AND have a good personality, then if you were just good-looking and rude. :-)
2007-03-07 22:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naa, your best revenge is to not give a rats @ss about them. You grew up , who knows, maybe they did too.
2007-03-07 22:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh this was me in HS...my best revenge was them hitting on me when I went back home...
2007-03-07 22:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by sjsalerno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, act like an adult about it! tease them a little. ha ha. pretend to be nice to them back and act like your interested and then just walk away and act all nonchala like nothing happened.
2007-03-07 22:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by Deb M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋