2007-03-07 13:54:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT, DO NOT,DO NOT,DO NOT,DO NOT,DO NOT,DO NOT,DO NOT, have sex!!!! You are too young and you could end up pregnant or with a STD if you are not careful. Sex is an adult activity that requires a lot of maturity and it comes with big responsibilites. Enjoy being a girl and dump the boy. He shouldn't be pressuring you like this!
2007-03-07 13:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you have heard more than you should at your age because that's just how it is these days. I had sex when I was 15 and I am 25 now and I really regret it and wouldn't recommend it. I know you are curious but its not great for you until you are older(17 +) when you have experience other things I'm not talking sexually I'm saying in general. Don't make life harder for yourself. Be proud to be a kid. You don't get that freedom for long. You will always be able to have sex and drink and do al those things you shouldn't right now. There was a girl in my class who had boyfriends that were really cool and she would never have sex with them. They would get so mad and try to push her into it but she just broke up with them. They would spread roomers but she new who she was and what they said didn't matter. I wish I could have done what she did, but I gave in. It wasn't worth it. Just don't do it. I know you don't want to hear that but really think about it. what if you got pregnant? Birth control doesn't always work. Abortion isn't healthy for you physically nor mentally. Be young and enjoy it!!!! i wish I was younger and I'm only 25. Change your generation and be a leader of good judgment and not a follower of poor judgment. Be smart PLEASE!!!
2007-03-07 14:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are WAY to young.
There's nothing wrong with waiting for many, many years.
Anytime you feel like doing it, ask yourself the following questions:
Do I want a child now?
Do I have money to raise a child now?
Am I mature enough to get my own place and raise a child?
Do I have a job?
Am I done with ALL my education?
Can I drive yet?
You may be thinking: "I'll use a condom of Course!!" Yes, but those are not THAT effective; pregnancies happen ALL THE TIME even with birth control methods!!!
If you feel confident still, after answering those questions, then go ahead, but the longer you wait, the better!
2007-03-07 14:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it baby you are only 12 how many boys will you have sex with before you get married to the real guy. If a guy likes you he will respect you and not have sex with a 12 year old. There are so many other things that you can do with groups. Do not have sex boys will talk about you and u will be the ***** and whore, etc. and your body is still maturing. Say no and see if he will still be your bf. You are going to meet to many people to start with having sex. Nasty girl--don't be a fool!
2007-03-07 14:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, are you ready to support a baby? Are you ready to give up all of your childhood to change diapers and deal with a crying fussing baby? It does not matter how much protection you use there is always the possibility of pregnancy. You are too young to be worrying about sex. You need to enjoy being a kid a little longer. Please wait till your older before experimenting with things like this.
2007-03-07 14:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by precious1too 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!
you aren't too young to feel the emotions but you're probably not ready for sx.
I think that you will regret it later.
2007-03-07 13:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even allowed to have a boyfriend at your age is what I would like to know??!
My daughter is 24-years-old, and she certainly did not have boyfriends at 12!
Yor are too young for sex and too young to be dating. I hope your folks come to their senses before you make a mistake that cannot be undone.
2007-03-07 14:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no. Trust me, you're too young. I waited till I was 18, and I still think that was pushing it. Your body can't handle sex yet (much less the pregnancy that might result from it) and your head and heart would certainly become muddled. You don't know now how much having sex changes things...but it does. It brings in new emotions that you've never had before, increases emotions in ways that you've never experienced....just trust me, it's too much for you right now. Tell him no, and if he pressures you...break up with him. Talk to your parents if you have to, they'll certainly help you. Just protect yourself...let yourself grow up before you have sex...you'll thank yourself later.
Goodluck, and stay strong.
2007-03-07 13:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Katy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want to and that you're not ready, if he cares about you, he'd respect you and wait until you are ready. 12 is way too young to be having sex. You could get pregnant, are you ready to be mom?? You could get an STD. Bottom line, don't have sex until you're ready for the conquences, good or bad. Sex is best when its at the right time, serious committed relationshiops, i.e. marriage.
2007-03-07 13:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...im 12, and i don't think you should be getting any where near that rite now. you should just be kissing rite now, seriously, or lightly, but try not to get to sex until you are at least 16. If you can't help it, then try it for a while. if you are able to stand it, then try to forget about it, and when he brings it up again, give him a kiss and walk off or sumthin. BUT DO NOT HAVE SEX AT 12. most people usually dont even have sex until they're 16, so try not to think about it yet.
2007-03-07 13:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋