Do you agree with what I am doing?

Question

I have simply learned not to get so close to people and simply pull myself from others because I tend to get to close and I tend to hug a woman to much if I am close to her or getting really close. I feel I need to do this because I do tend to go to far with a female friend on friendship and get too close. I believe their is such a thing as getting to close. Like I said I have learned to back off on getting close to a person and limit my closeness to them and just be someone they can count on to a minimal and not hug the woman so much. I am not afraid of relationships. I just know I do not need to get close to the women in my life that are friends.

it is especially hard when they have a boyfriend and if i scare them I have to pull myself away from them forcefully. I just think if i hold myself back from any woman I can be there for them just only a little and not all the way.

Answer 1

I agree with you...

Good thinking...

;)

Answer 2

well, i do agree with you, but to an extent. with most people, this is a smart thing. but....there are some ladies out there who appreciate a good friend of the opposite sex who she is jsut as close to as her girlfriend, her closest female friend. there are some girls out there who need a man to get advice from, someone who they know they can always turn to when they have trouble. like a big brother without the blood relation. but if you are a man who would have a tough time drawing the line and may get too touchy and offend the woman, well, and again. it all depends on the woman. some women prefer a closeness with a male friend. the thing is to find the right person to connect with. now, if you are worried that you will get too jealous when she seeks a relationship with another man, then yes, you are right. but you shouldn't limit yourself. you are saying that you shouldn't be completely happy just because you have problems with self control? so try to work on it, that's all. seek advice on how to work on it. keep asking questions. this is the second one i have seen from you and i would be glad to answer more of your questions. you sound nice. keep your chin up, man. things will come together.

Answer 3

u seem to have a problem keeping your hands to yourself.i think u r doing the right thing by limiting the closeness.many women tend to think that when men do that they only want sex. u r scaring women off with this need to be affectionate.

Answer 4

You say you are afraid of relationships, but what you're doing seems like you want a relationship.

You can have a girlfriend without being married. Try it. you might like it. If not you say later for it. At least you'll have someone to hug.

Answer 5

I agree whole heartedly shut them all out if they can't get in you will not get hurt. A hug from another closer here to you.

Answer 6

No I don't agree because you are going to shut your self off from a lot in life with that attitude but to each his own and if it is working for ya, more power.

Answer 7

What you are doing is good. But try and come close to them. All you need to do is control yourself.

Answer 8

Temptation of the mind of matter.

Your in control of your choices so be it.

Answer 9

Yer i agree with what you are doing

Answer 10

nope

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