Have you ever been jelous of his new girl?

Question

If you have been jelous by your ex's new crush/gf, please tell your story!

Answer 1

Well my so called first love and i were together for quite a few years and we broke up on really bad terms. I was just starting college and getting a new job that i didnt really have the time to think about getting a new bf. It must have been two months after we split that i seen him wit some chick who was all over him. I wanted to act mature about it to show that it didnt bother me. I mean deep down i knew that he was good looking so it shouldnt surprise me if he gets other girls. It was just that he found someone so quick and to be already in a serious relationship after all the craziness we went through, it kinda threw me off. And i think it might be human nature to size the new person up and see how they compare to you. I did this and i just realized that he could never have no one like me, i mean she was cute n all, but so am i lol and i was a really good gf to him. So its whatever, i think the first time i initially saw them it was just a shock, like a stab in the back, but then you just get over it and move on.

Answer 2

No. But I'm extremeley jealous of HER new guy. Here's my story. I'm not a bad person... REALLY I'm not. There was a girl that I've known all my life, and I really didn't notice her until last year, her freshman year in High School. We got to be very good friends, and I began to notice her beauty. Not just on the outside, but on the inside as well. I realized that she was a good person when she became friends with a guy who nobody talked to. It went even further when my dad got Prostate cancer (He's fine now) and I became very concerned. She stood by my side, and comforted me whenever I was down. We grew very close, and I realized that I was in love with her. I never was able to muster up the courage to ask her out, because at every oppurtunity, someone showed up, and she completely forgot that I existed, or I was scared shitless. Then, I went to the National FFA Convention, and found confidence there. Upon my return, I bestowed unto her a gift to show her that I cared about her and that I would keep my word no matter what. She thaked me for it and gave me a hug. Days later, I had made up my mind. I was going to ask this woman out if it was the last thing I did. Unfortunately, I was witness to her kissing her new boyfriend. I was shocked. I sank down to the floor and kept my head down throughout the rest of the lunch period. I remember thinking, "How can this happen? I though she had feelings for me." The last words I remember her telling me came from what I believe to be her realization of my heart being shattered. "I don't want you to be sad." I don't remember how long I cried that night. I didn't sleep for weeks. Since that cold November day, I've only spoken to her 3 or 4 times. It makes me sick every time I see them together. The realization that I no longer have the chance at real happiness that I had burns in the dephs of my broken heart. She shouldn't have gone with him, he's done nothing but force her in and out of things, and he is extremely jealous. I'm not saying that I would be the best choice for her, but had she gone with me, I'd have treated her with respect, she's a young woman and entitled to every right that I have, and as long as she doesn't go behind my back, then she can do as she pleases. He disagrees. His beliefs are that talking to another boy, going to prom with someone other than your significant other, or being in a club that has someone you don't like in it is considered cheating. He forced her out of FFA, and into MESA and Track. She needs to break it off with him before he ruins whatever chance at a life she has. That's my story, and why I'm jealous of that pompus bastard.

Answer 3

oh man I got tons of these! I dated a guy Chris for 3 months and he was 19 I was 16 and I was butt crazy about him anywho we broke up and decided to do the "friend thing" but that did not work out so well and he just all together stopped talking to me and I would call his cell and his new gf answered his phone! I was so crushed I cryed for days I was like that used to be my man and how can he just move on so fast! So yea and another story is I went to Hollywood Video and saw my ex w/ his new gf she wasn't really good looking but she had a nicccce car and I was still jealous and to make it worse he tried to make me jealous even more because he saw me and he put his arm around her and kissed her I was like lmao uhm ok?! Oh and one more story this one is weird because I didn't like the guy all that much I broke up with him and he was with this girl we used to hang out with and he was holding her hand I wanted to cry I guess because I was single and he looked so happy I was devasted.

Answer 4

When I was a teen I got like that a lot. It's hard to see someone you were once close to, maybe even in love with, with another girl.

Answer 5

yeah thats fine but just always think she will never be you and he know it too