well i take the public bus from school everyday. i have noticed this guy on the bus and he gets off the same stop i get off. and he lives on the same street as me. one time he was walking behind me very closely (he has done this about 4 times) so now i always make sure i walk behind him because i dont want him following me or anything. but he always turns around and looks at me while he's walking. i think he tried to talk to me once but i didnt hear him cuz i was listening to my ipod. anyways i dont like him cuz he's very unattractive, but should i be worried? he's always looking back at me and makes me unconfortable.
2007-03-07 13:36:00 · 11 answers · asked by chanoah_7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o yea im in high school and this guy looks like he's 27 or 28
2007-03-07 13:36:36 · update #1
in my neighborhood we worry about child molesters and kidnappers so i have agun alotta people i know do to
2007-03-08 08:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by Nicc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be worried. Is there a way for you to wait and take a later bus? Can you ask a friend (a male!) to ride with you and walk you at least part of the way home, or to meet you at the bus station? Is there somewhere public you can go when you get off the bus -- and wait there until he is gone?
Sounds creepy -- tell someone.
2007-03-07 21:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by kelannde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this guy has the same bus schedule and lives on the same street and sometimes looks at you because you're probably hot.
Start taking a slightly different route home, like one block over. If he follows you, call the police and describe what's going on. I don't think it's quite stalking, but it's weird.
2007-03-07 21:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd start takin the bus a lil later, change ur routine up a lil...if he starts adjustin 2, then u'll know he's doin it on purpose...i would mention it 2 ur folks as well, sugar...u can never b 2 careful...sad that we're raised 2 believe the best in people and such a letdown when u find out some folks r just nasty... :o( good luck...
2007-03-07 21:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a friend walk with u or start to get off at a different stop if u can........if he keeps following u let him walk past u to see where he's going he's probably just going home....just because he gets off the same stop doesn't mean he's getting off for u....if u feel uncomfortable just change your schedule. he probably thinks your following him since he keeps looking at u.
2007-03-07 21:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a log of anything that goes on and when it gets to the point that you don't want to deal with it or you can't deal with it anymore then talk to you parents and see if they will go with you to talk to the police. If you are to that point now. Try to remember everything that you can that has happened and have your parents go with you to the police station.
2007-03-07 21:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. it could be that he is very self concious and checks to make sure you arent looking at him weird
2007-03-07 21:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by ╣♥╠ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur mom or a friend or trusted adult and if it gets worse go to the police!! good luck <3
2007-03-07 21:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by !${*~ stressed and confused~*}$! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone about it. If he doesn't stop contact the police.
2007-03-07 21:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by dmstanley02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his number hahah jk.
2007-03-07 21:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋