Ok well here is whats going on, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months and all of a sudden she broke up with me:( she said she just dont feel the same, she said it was because i was almost like a parent instead of a bf cause i cared alot about her like her grades and stuff and, also her parents are real strict and i was always trying to get her to talk to them and i changed now and i want her back she is my life i feel so down and depresed since this please help me understand what to do... she still talks to me though and mostly on the messenger or something she said she still loves and cares about me she just dont feel the same way about me after everything we have been through, is there something i can do to make her fall for me again? i really love her and would never want to hurt her or see her get hurt. we were always so happy together and now im so depresed what can i do to get her back? please help!!
2007-03-07 13:28:39 · 5 answers · asked by Brandon D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry dude, that's part of growing up. But nothing - and I mean NOTHING - gets back at a chick more than ignoring them. If you cry and are sad and contact her every five minutes and beg her to come back, she will have ZERO respect for you. Desperation is not attractive. It will only strengthen her decision for dumping you cuz you'll come off looking like a douche. But if you act like you can get so much better than her (even if it's just an act) it will piss her off and she'll think she blew it. She might even re-think her decision about you, if that's what you really want.
Women like guys who have something going on. Pour yourself into something else - it doesn't even have to be another chick. Go write a song or paint something. Anything. But ignore her messages. After 3 months, she'll either be begging you to come back or you'll be banging somebody else and won't even remember that other chick's name.
2007-03-07 13:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me give you some advice.
x's should stay x's.
i know you think you cant live without her... but when you find someone new you will feel much better.
did you ever hear the old saying, if you get thrown by a horse the best medicine is to just get back up and start riding again.....
giddy up cowboy!!! you can do it!!!
2007-03-07 21:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things go as they are and stay in touch. She may change her mind when you statr to date another girl.
2007-03-07 21:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to help "set you up" with someone. Then when she sees you are "over" her she will get jealous!
Good Luck!
2007-03-07 21:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by jackofonetrade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
burst her new bf in the eye and run
2007-03-07 21:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by king 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋