I Dont know how to tell him?

Question

I am 23 year old female working full-time. I have known G for more than a year now. He stays just opposite my apartment and we have been meeting up very often ever since we knew each other. Moreover he is also my brother's childhood buddy. I really liked G alot ever since I got to know him. He is such a gem of a person and a gentleman. Amidst all the guys I have dated, though we have gone out so many times, not even once has he tried to misbehave towards me. One remarkable event that really touched me was when I went to watch movie and sleepover at his place, I was sleeping on the same bed as him hugging him and he didnt take advantage of the situation at all. Instead he kept his hands to himself. Each time I see him, I started falling in love with him deeper. When I was gonna tell him, he broke my heart by telling me that he just got attached to someone. However till today, he spends more time with me than his own gf. I dunno what to do... I know he doesnt luv her as much as he should

Answer 1

Girl Friend

You need to sit down and understand what you are about to do. If you tell him how you really feel he could totally reject you saying that you are just trying to break up his relationship. ( i don't think that what you want him to say) Or he could be like you are totally right and i wanna be with you. (which i don't think that is going to happen) (SORRY) . you need to wait until the right time, no one can really answer when the right time will be. you will just be able feel it in your heart and his. If you truly have feeling for him and you love him just as much as you think that you do, then you will know what is right. just look into your heart.

Answer 2

There are many factors for which you should consider. The fact that he is good friends with your brother may be a blocking point. Perhaps your brother told G not to mess with you or something of the sort.
In any case, G has a girlfriend and regardless of how he feels for her they are still together and should be respected as such. You will be the better woman for it.
Deep down in your heart I'm sure you know whether he feels similar to you or not. If you think he does when he is single make a move. Tell him how you feel.
Take a chance.

Answer 3

pinky, just hold back just a little longer. youll be glad you did. he seems to be a respectable guy and this girlfriend of his is most likey the reason he didnt take advatage of you the night he had perfect opportunity. i think you need to give him time to see what he really wants to do in this current relationship. eventually, if you get another night like you did before. i think it would be the perfect time to mention it to him. dont expect him to be all lovey dovey with you the first moment he hears the news, but at least if he's still with the girlfriend he can start deciding on where he wants to be. he still may not even want to be anything more than just friends whether he has a girlfriend or not because some people value their friendships more. but give dude some time till you can get him alone again. chances are he already has a good idea that you like him.

Answer 4

U r a great fool. Do not trust him at all. Most of the boys cheat the girls by telling such lies. Actually God saved u from jaws of a shark & foolish girl like u r trying to approach the same dangerous entity. U look very emotional & childish 2. That's why I can't trust your judgement. That G is not at all fit for u. Keep away.

Answer 5

I think he has very deep and true feelings for you, but you're someone he respects and cares a lot about..........not to mention, you're his childhood buddy's sister. That's why he feels that if he had a GF, then it wouldn't ruin what he has his with you and your brother. Do you know what I'm getting at here? If your feelings are growing for him, let him know. Be honest. This could open doors for the both of you. Get to know each other better and take it from there..........

Answer 6

Make the first move. If he rejects you, you are no different than you are now. But if you take a chance and it works out who knows? Nothing is better than true love it is worth fighting for. Little else really matters if you have a soul mate there is nothing that you cant handle. Go for it!

Answer 7

Be upfront..... do not beat around the bush. Obviously its bothering you that he is dating someone else and not you. Also, be prepared to understand that he might not feel the same way about you. Either way I think your better off knowing. P.S. if you two somehow end up in the sack don't expect a relationship because you had sex with him. Have sex because you want to have sex and not to obligate somebody. Guys hate women who do that.

Answer 8

Girl this guy likes you and he wouldnt be hanging out with you if he didnt tell him if you really do love him tell him that you do love him and see what the anser is but girl all guys are stupid sometimes take it and you will get over it dont get in a fight.

Signed the dating girl

Answer 9

Just tell him that you some feelings for him that mean more than just friends.If he spends more time with you than his girlfriend than you two should be going out instead.Tell him how much better your day goes by because of you thinking about him.If he means that much to you than it is worth being honest with him and telling him how you feel.Tell him how much mor5e happy you are to just see him.Once you start talking it will be easier to let your heart tell you what to say.You just have to figure out what your opening line will be.Be strong and good luck.

Answer 10

maybe he's starting to see you as just a friend now...or he just might not want to risk your friendship over a relationship, since it's so great.i think you should just randomly bring it up when you guys hang out...tell him how you feel. you'll feel alot better once you get it off your chest, regardless of the response you get..you'd rather know that you tried instead of wondering what it could be, you know?