I dated a guy for almost 3 years and we broke up b/c he wanted to see what else was out there b/c we were very young while broken up i met a guy that i really liked and got along with great we dated twice and i went back to the first guy then we broke up. well guy number 2 is in the army and just went on active duty and is in another state and he calls me regulary and today told me that we make a great couple and we need to be 2gether he say i talk to the first guy (but we dont go out) but he knows where my heart is and the first guy is now wanting to be with me again also i love them both with all of my heart but dont know who i want to be with what should i do i am so confused HELP ME PLEASE also i dont want to hurt neither one of them feelings
2007-03-07 13:14:40 · 4 answers · asked by just anotha chick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey sweetie, being torn is a verrrry difficult thing. I have been torn in this kind of sittuation aswell. I was dating 2 and half years with one and fell for our best friend who is now in the army. I talk to him too, but.. hes so far away. My best advice is to tell the army guy that things might be too difficult being an army gurl. and that you want to be with him, but its a little hard on you. And the other guy, He left you, lets not forget to find "better" but failed making you the better. Hince he lost. You dont need him anymore, and you have someone better. and can obviously find better. Yeah the memories will always be there and it might be a little hard, but in time I strongly believe that you will be just fine and thanking yourself you got the courage to think of yourself.
Good luck and be good to yourself.
2007-03-07 13:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Omission is betrayel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tell you who to choose, but that is something you must decide for yourself. The best advice I can give you is to make a decision period.
It is not fair to either guy to string them along as if you are committed to just them. Not to be rude, but it is just plain dishonest.
Something else to consider...with at least 3 billion men in the world, why do you have to dig around in your past trash to find someone to be with?
2007-03-07 21:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really pretty simple. which one do you know better? is it the 1 u spent 3yrs with or is it the other one? my advice is to date the new guy for awhile, like a year orso then you will be able to make the decision, equality, i s all ti is.
2007-03-07 21:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
share them
2007-03-07 21:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋